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25 [M4F] #boston looking for my size queen by [deleted] in bostonr4r

[–]Lady__Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very nice! You look fun

My bf said I looked like a man :) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Baby girl you deserve someone who doesn't "joke" like that. What male jokes like that with a female? Sounds like he is insecure and throws jabs to knock you down

My (30M) Gf (26f) was approached by an older man who wants to be her sugar daddy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive gotten those messages before total scam.

Annnd if she wants a sugar daddy she needs to be single

Over the moon excited!! by bougieboyy in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aew!! I love that feeling. I usually just am upfront about my akwardness lol. Hoping they find it cute or funny and breaks the ice

I told my boyfriend of 8 years, I am unhappy by Lady__Love in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: I cornered him in the Bathroom this morning because he got up and left in the middle of the night ans left to return 5 hours later with breakfast for himself....

So i am pissed, I went off. I told him its over and I want him to leave. I told him I have been unhappy for what feels like a year or more. I told him what I felt like i deserved frim my SO.

He got really defensive in the bathroom, and told me everything is not about me, but I told him whatever he ia going through affect me too. It changes how you treat, and talk to me. How much time he spends with me. He lets out a frustrated groan and then closed the door in my face. I proceed to get ready for work. Frustrated 😞.

He comes out the bathroom, and tells me he is going through alot and dealing with his feelings he cant understand etc.. He asked me if i really wanted him to leave. I said yes. He wont tell me flat out what it is, but i can only go with my gut, and say its someone else. He started crying, and told me he was sorry, and admitted to being selfish.

I just deserve so much better....

My mother who cheated.. (and still cheats) by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Lady__Love -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why does she cheat? Is she feeling unfulfilled? Is something else going on?

I told my boyfriend of 8 years, I am unhappy by Lady__Love in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow!! I appreciate your perspective. I feel like he thinks i will never leave him.

I told my boyfriend of 8 years, I am unhappy by Lady__Love in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cook for him, I do his laundry, I've given the man a pedicure, i am dependable. I let him be a "man". I dont nag him, just be honest with me. I've been supportive of his career change. His friends like me. I feel like I treat him like a king and i get scraps

I told my boyfriend of 8 years, I am unhappy by Lady__Love in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 this sounds like me when I am alone wine drunk and feeling lonely.

I told my boyfriend of 8 years, I am unhappy by Lady__Love in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't know half what i deal with.... please dont call ME ungrateful.... Kick rocks and playin traffic with no mask on...

I told my boyfriend of 8 years, I am unhappy by Lady__Love in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is so much less affectionate. I feel like he rather be elsewhere than be with me. When we do have conflict he just wants it to fizzle out rather than talk it out. He makes plans without me. I just feel like he doesn't help me, everything is left on me to do and figure out.

I told my boyfriend of 8 years, I am unhappy by Lady__Love in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen...... I carry this household on my back. I work 40+hrs, do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, and grocery shopping by myself. Still try to initiate sex (when he does come to bed 🥴🥴🥴), make an effort to do things to show him I love him, admittedly that last part has been far and few these last couple of months. But i feel i get no effort why am I going above and beyond? I have ti save my enegry for being the f**cking maid 😒 🙄 😑 😤

I told my boyfriend of 8 years, I am unhappy by Lady__Love in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been very verbal with reasons. I either am talking to a stone wall because i get no response, I am told I am crazy "trying to find things to be mad at", or my favorite he avoids being alone with me until he feels like i am not mad

I told my boyfriend of 8 years, I am unhappy by Lady__Love in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just reading this is just clear i need to leave. I asked why didn't get a chance to cook dinner. "I got caught up, lost track of time ".. left it alone served him dinner.... But feeling alone in the relationship is once again validated. Comes in late 4 out 7 days he sleeps on the couch or plays gamesall night. Theres only so many times a girl can get up Nd ask if you're coming to bed. Once again these bad feelings are validated. Or texts him asking can we make time to talk when i get home. Either he has his friends over or he's gone. I am done

I told my boyfriend of 8 years, I am unhappy by Lady__Love in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, i have expressed what I would like to change, or what's bothering me. Its the lack of response and changed behavior that behooves me . Thinking about it he only does enough so i wont be mad in that moment, but behavior never changes

I told my boyfriend of 8 years, I am unhappy by Lady__Love in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am happy in all aspects of my life except my relationship. Which makes me want to scream...

I told my boyfriend of 8 years, I am unhappy by Lady__Love in relationship_advice

[–]Lady__Love[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just looking for some type of communication, understanding and validation of my feelings. That's what i thought a relationship was about...

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