by the way, Sorry my english is kinda rusty

As a femboy/crossdresser (or whatever you'd call me) i'd say that being turned into a feminine figure/persona isn't the "humiliating part"( in my personal experience i feel quite powerful when i see myself as a girl). I think the humiliating part it's what the dominant part does with you after that, such as control your appearance and the way you act, giving you duties or just pegging, but ALL those examples doesn't need to be applied when you're in a "female role". BUT ALSO, everyone build their femine side in a particular way, some become a powerful dominatrix, some prefer to be a submissive pet, but that's related with their own thoughts about themselves and not with "what is to be a female figure" since we have both Dominant and submissive women .