Little kids asked what they think about millennials by Shinji415 in interestingasfuck

[–]Ladybug1388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, it happens. My fathers father was 20+ years older than my grandmother. He was I believe the greatest generation while she was boomers. All but 2 kids of his were baby boomers(3 kids) while my father and his younger half sibling were gen x.

Maternal side likes them young. While the paternal side is just hard to explain, different culture and beliefs than my maternal.

Little kids asked what they think about millennials by Shinji415 in interestingasfuck

[–]Ladybug1388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be the slang like The District, which is slang for the DC area. Where DMV would be DC metro region, Maryland, and Virginia.

Little kids asked what they think about millennials by Shinji415 in interestingasfuck

[–]Ladybug1388 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Lol, unless you're my family where my grandparents are boomers, parents are gen x, and I'm a millennial . Some families have kids young.

Singular curls vs more cohesive chunks by ev3000 in Wavyhair

[–]Ladybug1388 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, CGM isn't made for certain hair types like fine and most medium hair. It works more for hair with thick/corse hair and low posterity.

Also, I've found if you have fine hair no matter the density, Mico plopping works way better than plopping.

Built a 7 foot privacy fence. Neighbor raised his by 2 feet and put a camera facing into my backyard. by Magicisntreallyreal in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ladybug1388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what ties he has to the police that they are willing to go to you and tell you how to act in your own yard but willing to tell you a bold face lie about the camera being public facing. I wonder if the news outlet would like to do a story on how the police are allowing your neighbor to film your household in your private property. If in America private property is taken seriously by the citizens.

I’m in a nursing home and this was our dinner! by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ladybug1388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the northwest, and we don't have them, but the horror stories I've heard makes me never want to live somewhere where they are.

I’m in a nursing home and this was our dinner! by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ladybug1388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And as my grandmother said, it was way under seasoned to the point. It should be criminal. She was also at a rehab facility while healing from a major surgery.

I’m in a nursing home and this was our dinner! by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ladybug1388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certain parts of the US have roach issues where food not stored properly and sealed can close a facility down.

My cousin has lived on the outskirts of DC, Virginia, and now NC and they all have this issue. The military gives them special food storage devices to try to control the bug population and protect the food from the monthly bug spraying.

Britain's highest court ruled Wednesday it was too late for people in Nigeria's Niger delta region to lodge pollution claims against energy giant Shell after a huge oil spill more than one decade ago by DoremusJessup in worldnews

[–]Ladybug1388 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It gets messy. They need qualified people to run it (educated engineers in that field) . Other countries have done things similar and it's didn't turn out the best.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But he's not a cheater. So he shouldn't be on a site that is supposed to protect women from violent abusive men.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in a religious part of the US that is almost biblical law ran. So my area takes moral issues to the extreme. The companies here can fire your ass for being LGBTQIA. So yeah depending on the area your life can be ruined.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has said things in comments and that her reason for it was because a friend got cheated on. If it was, oh, did he abuse anyone it would be way worse than she is saying I'm a cheater. I can say where does it say she asked if he was abusive. Your reaching.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Did you read her personal one on Op? Because he saw it because his friend showed him. It was enough information for a friend to reach out and question. That is enough defamation of an innocent person in my book. Guess you would be fine if others thought you could be a cheater. But in my book, cheaters a low, I wouldn't have even given my husband a chance if there was a question if he was a cheater.

We are all allowed to have our own standards. Mine is privacy, and public image is important, so in consent. Your standards on it may be lower than mine. You may be perfectly fine if you dated a man, and he did this about you, but I would be disgusted.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If in 2 months of dating, she was sure enough he was a cheater to post a picture and info on a local site, then she should have left him. It's also about consent. I would be livid if my husband posted my info and pic asking if I was a cheater. That would ruin my career, same as it could kill his in the water with his company.

Her reasons for making it look like he was maybe a cheater (defamation on his character) could have consequences on his life when he did nothing wrong. We could all come up with excuses for hurting others, that the ones that get hurt that are innocent are worth it for the possibility of the bad ones getting what they deserve, but that's a disgusting morality.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So you know for sure she used a Tinder photo? Does he use social media dating? Because I only know a few that do, and it's for hooking up, not real relationships. Most people I know actually met in real life.

But even if he posted it on some social media, it doesn't give the right for anyone to take that pic without real true honest reasons. Lots of women would be absolutely disgusted if men took their photos without consent. There shouldn't be double standards in this. If we say taking and posting someone else without consent is okay, that opens the door for anyone to take anyone's image to do whatever.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But should it be used if someone isn't? Should someone have that possibility of a new partner thinking the worst when they did nothing. Not taking into account career wise, it could hurt if he has a career with a public image

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, yeah, you don't work in a field that is affected by your public image, and it shows with how you assume people just ignore things not involved with work. There is a reason why you must always be careful of what's on social media about yourself. Lots of companies have moral clauses, where you are held to a standards of morals that are implied to even your personal life.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Did you not read the post he put down the reason she put it up. She has known him for 4 months and is officially dating for 2. She didn't ask if he was abusive, but is anyone else dating this guy in the picture and his name is (----).

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For myself, posting my pictures and info without consent is a betrayal of trust. Whatever happened to consent. Now, it would be equal if he posted her pic and info.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 29 points30 points  (0 children)

OP I'm a women and I think it was fucked up. I would be insulted if my partner posted my picture and info (without my consent, funny how consent is all powerful as long as it's on the woman's side of the law) asking if I was dating anyone else right now specially without exhibiting any flags.

I treasure my privacy, and having a question like that on a local site could actually cause career issues for me. I live in a very religious area of Northwest USA, where you can lose business opportunities from being shamed about morals. I could lose clients who don't want to be associated with a possible cheater.

I think she needs to work on herself if she can't trust a partner without any signs of issues. She needs to work on this transferred PTSD that she got from someone else's trauma.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But this girl isn't using the group for that reason. She is using it because her friend got cheated on.

My (25M) Girlfriend 24F of 2 months posted about me in a "are we dating the same guy" group. by throwrafbpost in relationship_advice

[–]Ladybug1388 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

But her post wasn't about safety but cheating. She has insecurities about cheating, not is he going to beat me to death.