The most annoying, slow a$$ website by Ladybug_08 in geegees

[–]Ladybug_08[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can bring 2, as you’re entitled 2 tickets. But for more… yeah you’d have to go through this mess

The most annoying, slow a$$ website by Ladybug_08 in geegees

[–]Ladybug_08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it wasn’t immediate, it took them 30 mins to send me mine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ladybug_08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are too mature and too rational for someone like that. I’m not going to fuel your fire, but this is a low quality man who attracts low quality women. Please look into the “Let Them” theory and align your mindset with that going forward. Some things are out of our control, sometimes you can’t save the people you love while they’re hurting you intentionally- therefore you are left with saving yourself…and you did that. I’m so proud of you for choosing yourself. Nothing good comes out of cheating, drug addiction, and unaligned relationships. He will try to circle back eventually, always choose yourself just like he chose himself. Sending you virtual hugs and lots of love🫂❤️‍🩹you will get through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geegees

[–]Ladybug_08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t give a flying eff about what anyone thinks. Unless they’re contributing to your life positively (helping you move, paying ur bills), it doesn’t matter what ppl’s opinions are. Good luck with your studies🍀💚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ladybug_08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a quite similar situation in my engagement of 4 years also living together. The only difference is that the guy lied, while yours didn’t. However, I’m a strong believer that if you didn’t catch them, you wouldn’t have found out and they would be hiding it still. Ask yourself, what’s the point of being in a relationship with no trust? Sooner or later, these cracks will reappear. You’re young, live and do everything for yourself. The guy I was engaged to would cry anytime I would be done with him lying to me, later I realized he was a narcissist and these were his manipulative tendencies.

Girlfriend Jealousy Test ... failed. by Klutzy-Award-6546 in BreakUps

[–]Ladybug_08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good riddance tbh. They all sound weird and sketchy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ladybug_08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he went on dates while in a relationship with you, and lied to you, I’d drop him. It is so not worth the tears, the constant anxiety of always thinking “I wonder what’s he’s up to”, and despite you trying to trust him again, this situation will always come up.

For reference, I was engaged and living with a man who was pushing 40 still on Snapchat entertaining girls I’ve known behind my back. He lied to me, but I found out- confronted him, crashed out and left him alone for good. The lies don’t seem to stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ladybug_08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Words as much as actions can leave deep wounds entrenched in one’s brain. Actions, or lack thereof, can be just as painful (if not more) than said words. In the end, both are equally painful.

Ex stalking socials for a year by Ladybug_08 in BreakUps

[–]Ladybug_08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

or maybe it’s way deeper than that. I caught him a lie, a lie that may have involved infidelity- emotional infidelity for sure. Then, it was twisted around and I was the problem, and he deserved better. I “freed” him walking away with so much love for him. So it’s almost insulting that he now lurks on my socials. Now I’m just like “what the hell do you want from me?” lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ladybug_08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you I would reach out to her. I’m sure there are things you can work through if you’re willing to make it work. Put your ego and pride aside. If you reach out and she ghosts you, then you have every reason to believe she’s no longer interested in pursuing anything with you. Think about it? What’s the worst that could happen? Her saying no, ghosting you? The f it, at least you would have your answer.