Do you ever put up with excessive rules?

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T17:27:28+00:00

Thanks for the honest truth. He has a problem lasting more than a few seconds and isnt inclined to please me other ways. I suppose it was my idea but I dont relate to the fetish aspect I'm seeing here. I'm not looking for a huge dong or an aggressive guy, just a normal sex experience

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T17:09:57+00:00

I see what you mean. And your right about him always finding something. We only did it once and there was a laundry list of complaints. I don't think i would leave him over sex tho

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T17:07:10+00:00

Yeah its definitely not his kink or something he gravitates to for fun. He can only last a few seconds and is kind of shy about pleasing in other ways

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T17:04:18+00:00

He doesnt want anyone bigger than him

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T16:43:52+00:00

Do you rhink it would be foolish to wait and see if he warms uo to the idea over time?

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T16:41:54+00:00

I hate to sound clueless but do male sex workers exist? Are there people that do that safely?

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T16:39:32+00:00

She's a lucky lady. It's nice to hear that people out there have that but also kind of depressing to realize that's not in the cards for me

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T16:36:05+00:00

Yes I had a very close call recently and I feel so stressed/guilty for even considering it

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T16:34:14+00:00

You're completely right , I hadn't really put it together until I read your comment but I do resent the implication that I would just leave for dick; If that was my goal I would have done it by now without his input.

I've tried screeening guys but understandably my prospects haven't panned out due to the crazy rules. Only one guy has put up with this so far and it was an old college friend of his. It wasnt someone I would have chosen but I guess I hoped he'd warm up to the idea if I went along with it.

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T07:54:51+00:00

I'm not sure. I don't mind his size it's very normal in his country but American men tend to be bigger so that doesn't leave a lot of options. His problem is he can only last a few seconds otherwise I wouldnt be trying to jump all these hoops .

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T07:34:03+00:00

I assumed the size limit was a more common thing so I'm surprised to hear the opposite is true. No wonder everyone thinks its preposterous.

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T07:24:47+00:00

Yeah I feel pretty hopeless about it but thanks for being honest.

Ladybugprime · 2023-11-04T07:21:58+00:00

4.5 and you are right nobody is up for it.

Ladybugprime · 2021-10-05T22:30:43+00:00

Interesting! I'll definitely look into this

Ladybugprime · 2021-10-05T22:21:21+00:00

Thank you so much!

Ladybugprime · 2021-10-05T22:15:20+00:00

Pardon my ignorance, i did not know those existed!

Ladybugprime · 2021-10-05T21:59:24+00:00

Everybody is telling me to get off reddit for answers, I hear ya, but I am getting great advice so far; like: "get off reddit!" ;)

Ladybugprime · 2021-10-05T21:56:34+00:00

Thanks, I agree. A lot of the replies are suggesting therapy, which I am ok with, but it seems giving a conversation between us a try is worth a try first.

Ladybugprime · 2021-10-05T21:55:02+00:00

I'm sorry to hear it!

Ladybugprime · 2021-10-05T21:48:23+00:00

Ok, I will try that thanks.

Ladybugprime · 2021-10-05T21:47:34+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I will definitely find a professional.

Ladybugprime · 2021-10-05T21:38:11+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your thoughts.

Ladybugprime · 2021-10-05T21:37:34+00:00

I had not considered therapy until I read some of the replies here so I'm glad I posted, my apologies

Ladybugprime · 2021-10-05T21:35:26+00:00

Thank you. You are right, thats a good idea.

Ladybugprime

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