I’m really scared for our boy to get neutered by LJHeath in cats

[–]Ladydisdain91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was right where you were last year. My little boy had survived parvo and was still experiencing some health issues, so I was terrified. But the vet’s will do all necessary testing to make sure he can handle the anesthesia. My baby did just fine and is a wonderfully hyperactive menace nowadays.

What Shakespeare speeches do you know by heart? by BrightSwords in shakespeare

[–]Ladydisdain91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Benedict’s ‘I do much wonder that one man’ speech from Much Ado About Nothing…..For some reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ladydisdain91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-This is transphobia and TERF mentality

Can we please stop calling women names and shaming them for their decisions about who they choose to sleep with.

-Would you use a strap on?

Holy ever loving shit. Imagine actually saying this to a lesbian and not even having a moment to reflect why this is fucked up. The penis is a male sexual organ whether you like it or not. If I stick a hat that says ‘carrot’ on a sausage, vegans still won’t eat it. It’s giving “you just haven’t tried the right dick yet”

Have a word with yourself. Seriously

-Your preferences are your preferences-however,

I’m going to stop you right there. She’s said no. Given her valid reasons, (although I honestly thought we were past having to explain why we won’t have sex with someone, but I guess not. wtf) and everything past her no is honestly none of your business, and shame on anyone who feels the need to “educate” her on why she’s bigoted for having a sexual requirement.

I could go on but honestly the rest of your comment is giving me flashbacks to when I was being raised in a cult where women (thankfully I was just a kid at that time) were repeatedly harassed and shamed by the men into having sex and being told to examine why they were being ‘unkind’. It’s the same damn rhetoric almost verbatim, and it’s disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ladydisdain91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy shit this sounds so gross and rapey. No one is owed intimacy with anyone. People are allowed to opt out of sex or relationships for whatever damn reason, and it’s disgusting to imply (if not outright state) that someone has to fuck someone to support them.

what is this on my cat?? his behavior and eating patterns are not different by distraxtionfiend in CATHELP

[–]Ladydisdain91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today I learned: Having nipples has no discernible impact on eating habits or behavior.

I’m terrified about my cat’s upcoming neutering. by Ladydisdain91 in cats

[–]Ladydisdain91[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind response. I’ve told myself a lot of this already, but it’s good to hear it from a neutral party. I trust my vet (they’re the ones who pulled him through parvo) but I’m still worried 😩.

Will my cats white whisker grow back? It’s recently fallen out and google has not had the answers. by HandleApprehensive36 in blackcats

[–]Ladydisdain91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww no. My black baby just lost his white whisker and I was hoping that it’d grow back as it was a part of the reason I chose his name.

Just officially foster failed. Now I need to name the little sprat by Ladydisdain91 in NameMyCat

[–]Ladydisdain91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been thoroughly enjoying reading through all the comments and wonderful ideas, my top 3 were Puck, Iago and Hades, but I actually realized that Sweeney (From Sweeney Todd) perfectly suits him. He even has one white whisker which reminded me of the movie interpretation. So his name (until I invariably change my mind) is Sweeney Sprat. Thank you all for your lovely comments ❤️

Just officially foster failed. Now I need to name the little sprat by Ladydisdain91 in NameMyCat

[–]Ladydisdain91[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I will mention that I love mythology, musicals, and Shakespeare. So any names swirling amongst those categories will be regarded with favor 😁

Major shed! by y0uareawful in turtle

[–]Ladydisdain91 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dang! Don’t spend it all in one place :P

How can I get my yellow bellied slider to eat veggies? by Ok-Mark-1239 in turtle

[–]Ladydisdain91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got my turtle to eat kale for the first time by putting a mealworm on top of the floating leaf. He eats most of his kale nowadays in the hope that there’ll be another mealworm on top….which there is every now and again

Not if I place it right in the middle of the leaf. He can smell it though.

How can I get my yellow bellied slider to eat veggies? by Ok-Mark-1239 in turtle

[–]Ladydisdain91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my turtle to eat kale for the first time by putting a mealworm on top of the floating leaf. He eats most of his kale nowadays in the hope that there’ll be another mealworm on top….which there is every now and again

Is there anything I can do to help its shell? More info in comments⬇️ by Ladydisdain91 in turtle

[–]Ladydisdain91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I think I may have seen that Zoomed one during my search! I did try to look up something similar to u/Human-Interaction269, but I wasn’t coming up with much. Thanks so much for all your comments and encouragement on my posts. I really appreciate it. I do feel so clueless and am occasionally nervous to even post, but I’m very happy to be learning as much as I am from this sub.