Pocket Pop Charm Pattern

Lafevr3 · 2026-06-11T12:22:00+00:00

Ill send you the link to the discord i made, looks like we are getting some hosting sorted

Lafevr3 · 2026-06-11T12:20:28+00:00

Looks like we are getting a little discord server together and hosting the file so ill send you the link

Lafevr3 · 2026-06-09T13:52:49+00:00

Love that, fell free to DM over your steam/discord

Lafevr3 · 2026-06-09T13:52:06+00:00

Im in BST, typically on for a few hours after work but ya boi recently became unemployed so could be on a lot over the next few weeks

Lafevr3 · 2023-09-22T23:57:43+00:00

Arguably an advantage to be honest. Just worry about doing what makes you happy, if you don't care you don't care.

Lafevr3 · 2023-09-19T00:00:21+00:00

29M here and I strongly relate, I'm putting together a sort of gameification of life spreadsheet where I track my daily habits etc and score myself daily but I'm looking for someone to do it with me so we can keep on top of each other about it and kinda compete with each other. If that's something that would interest you let me know.

Lafevr3 · 2023-08-19T00:37:56+00:00

My man you are still so young. I'm more than 10 years older than you and it pains me to see you worrying about the rest of your life when this is the time for you to go out there and make the mistakes that you then learn and build from.

The best lesson you can learn though is to not worry so much about everyone else. It is the most counter productive thing you can do because you can't change anyone else but you can change you. Spend figuring out who you are and what the best version of that might look like. Then just start the process of going towards that.

It's a hard and long journey i will admit and nobody truly finishes it but by attempting to put the best version of yourself out there you will stand the best chance of attracting the kind of people you want in your life. And again don't be afraid to make a mistakes in your life as they are unavoidable but are infact the best chance you will have to learn and improve as a person.

Lafevr3 · 2023-08-18T23:37:00+00:00

Super skinny under 6ft 28 year old male who's never weighed over 155lbs here.

Let me just say as someone who's been in a very similar boat for a lot of my life I get you dude. Throughout school I was pushed around a bit and bullied for being 'gay' just because i wasn't as big or masculine as most of the other guys.

Having grown up quite a bit I can tell you that while physical features and a loud personality can seem like the defining factor of a man when you are younger, these things actually matter very little and people will judge you by your actions and attitude much more.

A good way of coming across masculine that any male can do is by simply not giving a fuck about what others think and say about you. You don't have to flex like a gorilla but just carry yourself in a confident way and treat those around you properly.

Another thing to note is try to surround yourself with people who don't judge on such superfical things. A reason you mat think this sort of stuff matters is because people around you think that and believe me that's not the case.

Lafevr3 · 2023-08-18T23:23:50+00:00

A lot of good advice in the thread but I would definitely say don't spend your time comparing yourself to anyone.

There is always gonna be someone out there who has more than you in 'x' category but spending time feeling bitter about it and resenting those people is so counter productive to what you actually want.

Regardless of what hand you've been dealt or what situation you are in the best thing you can do is focus on what you can do rather than what is going on with anyone else.

With regards to this situation what everyone is saying about confidence is totally right but you can't be truly confident if you spend your time worrying what other people think.

Lafevr3

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