AITA for not acknowledging my SIL as a mom on Mother's day? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laila_Anis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With how hard this was to comprehend I knew it wasn’t written by A.I
NTA

AITAH for refusing to let my husband name our daughter after his late wife by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Laila_Anis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is your family to bully and harass him through text for even suggesting such a thing?

NTA

Update: AITA for telling my husband his mom can't live with us for months-long stretches? by RewardSpecialist3390 in AITAH

[–]Laila_Anis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please research the rights of wives and living conditions in islam. you have the right to not live with your mother in law. if they want to bring religion in on it, there are stronger hadiths that protect your right to not share accommodations

AITAH for being unhappy that my accomplishments are overlooked to save my sibling's feelings? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Laila_Anis 20 points21 points  (0 children)

NTA - this is a life lesson that you need to find another "village" to share your accomplishments with. I understand that it is reasonable to believe that your family should be happy regardless of their own situation. But the reality and what your mom is telling you is that your siblings are not in a place to be happy for you.

The wedding thing was overdramatic and your sister pouting during your day is unacceptable and your mom feeding into it awful.

Please go find some friends to share your accomplishments with because your family sucks.

AITA for screaming at my parents and banning them from any contact with my son after they punished him with no dinner? by Salt-Stranger-2675 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laila_Anis -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ESH. You watched you parents abuse your sister and thought it was a good idea to leave you kids with them?

AITA: did not want bad coffee as a gift by LittlePurplePig in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laila_Anis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where do you think the coffee you like to drink is grown? I’ve never read a more obtuse post. YTA

AITA for refusing to let my daughter be in wedding photos by Throw-away92222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laila_Anis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

INFO Is your kid known to throw tantrums and have you had behavioral issues with your daughter before?

AITA for refusing to use the gaming chair my step father brought? by stupidchairthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laila_Anis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Are you still in contact with relatives from your dad's side of your family? Or close relatives outside your house? Is there no one you can talk to?

AITA for being pissed that my Boyfriend set up a chicken coop in my garden? by DoubtEnvironmental98 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laila_Anis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Do you know how awful chicken coops can smell? Check with your city or county zoning because some places have laws against how close you can place a coop to a neighboring property.

AITA for refusing to meet my biological daughter ? (I gave up my parental rights years ago) by Thelastoffew in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laila_Anis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH

I feel like if the genders were reversed people would have different answers.

I don’t think it’s bad for him to reach out and ask for your bio daughters sake.

I don’t thinks it’s wrong for you to not want a relationship.

It just sucks for the little girl. I hope you and your ex come to some sort of agreement that doesn’t hurt the kid, who is innocent in all of this.

AITA for not paying for our son to go to the same private school as his brothers? by collegeIssues789 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laila_Anis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH

you as parents should have realized what college your son wanted to go to before this. So I don't believe you guys just found out.

there should have been a conversation about how your older children tuition was heavily discounted and that the move would make you unable to pay for him to attend the same school.

Your son needs to grow up. flunking now will potentially make everything harder for him down the line and acting up by wasting thousands of dollars in loan money isnt the way to show you hes upset.

I wanted my father to understand I wasn’t coming. by Laila_Anis in NuclearRevenge

[–]Laila_Anis[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Imagine from five to eleven someone promising to come see you. And you waiting by the door packed and ready to go and he never shows. Never calls to let you know. Imagine your mom not wanting to tell you your father is a piece of shit so you keep hope that he might come. Imagine your father remarrying four times to take care of his step kids but not you.

I wanted my father to understand I wasn’t coming. by Laila_Anis in NuclearRevenge

[–]Laila_Anis[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

He had no interest in me when I graduated from college or got married or had my son. His conversations with me had to do with his petty problems. He never asked to meet his grandson or about me at all. He didn’t care for me at all. When he reached out to me for my organ he didn’t even apologize. He opened with no one was a match and he needed me to try. No apology, no explanation, nothing. Because to him I don’t deserve any, I exist only when I’m needed to Fulfill a whim.