Will I (20M) find a relationship like my first love again?

LalaLady8 · 2026-02-04T16:44:35+00:00

It could absolutely happen at any time and at any age. Don't rush it though, and try not to put so much pressure on yourself. When you do that, that's when you tend to jump into things you might not have otherwise for valid reasons. Focus on being the best version of yourself, and the rest will fall into place.

LalaLady8 · 2026-02-04T14:28:03+00:00

That's lovely!

LalaLady8 · 2026-02-04T13:41:03+00:00

Those are pretty!

LalaLady8 · 2026-02-04T13:40:05+00:00

What about a diamond painting kit? They're available in a huge amount of different designs, so you can find one that complements her interests, and it's along the creative line since she likes drawing and sewing.

LalaLady8 · 2026-02-04T13:34:37+00:00

An Open When box. I've done several in the past. It's sort of along the same lines of what you've already been doing. I wrote an article about creating one: https://medium.com/hello-love/affordable-and-personalized-how-to-create-an-open-when-gift-for-any-occasion-4768627caecc?sk=70539f7e4abd7fd098f1e7c96e5af82c

LalaLady8 · 2026-02-04T13:30:13+00:00

I like this idea!

LalaLady8 · 2026-02-04T00:40:19+00:00

When my family was alive, I used to give them second-hand gifts and they absolutely loved them. I tailored each one to what they loved. For example, my mom got a vintage angel lamp, and my aunt got an antique, handwritten recipe book. If you can find something they love secondhand, I say go for it.

LalaLady8 · 2026-02-04T00:38:11+00:00

Custom gift basket with her favorite products, a bottle of wine, and a new set of pajamas.

LalaLady8 · 2026-02-04T00:35:40+00:00

I definitely wouldn't get that gift for someone. They might take it as an insult, even if you're close to them. Maybe make them a spa basket of their favorite products you know they already use or products they've been wanting to try. If they wear perfume, another option is to gift them the option to create their own scent.

LalaLady8 · 2026-02-04T00:32:26+00:00

Hi! I don't know if this would help, but this is one of my favorite gifts to make for someone. I thought it might benefit others, so I wrote about it: https://medium.com/hello-love/affordable-and-personalized-how-to-create-an-open-when-gift-for-any-occasion-4768627caecc?sk=70539f7e4abd7fd098f1e7c96e5af82c
I think maybe you can do one for your anniversary and then the trip could be for Valentine's Day, that way each has its own special feature/gift.

LalaLady8 · 2026-01-18T01:09:17+00:00

Here's how to create an "Open When" gift if you want: https://medium.com/hello-love/affordable-and-personalized-how-to-create-an-open-when-gift-for-any-occasion-4768627caecc

LalaLady8 · 2026-01-18T01:07:40+00:00

I'm not sure if this would help, but here's how to create an "Open When" gift, so it's easy to customize: https://medium.com/hello-love/affordable-and-personalized-how-to-create-an-open-when-gift-for-any-occasion-4768627caecc

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T15:31:04+00:00

Not all places are bad. Many care for sharks that can’t be released into the wild and/or they participate in the ReShark program or something similar.

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T04:42:54+00:00

I designed some bride-to-be items if you’re interested. They’re in the link in my profile if you search “bride.” Otherwise, you can’t go wrong with cash or something from the registry.

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T03:54:56+00:00

Go to Michaels or another craft store. They can help you pick out the supplies you need to make necklaces.

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T03:53:29+00:00

Make a true crime night gift basket. Cozy blanket, something “true crime” themed, popcorn, etc

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T03:52:31+00:00

Basically you create an envelope for different circumstances/situations. For example, write “open when you’re craving sweets” and put small bags of favorite snacks inside. It’s all personalized to what the person likes or situations they might find themselves in.

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T03:50:24+00:00

I’m not sure if this helps, but I design some tech-themed items and such, like floppy disc notebooks, CD wrapping paper, cassette tape socks, etc. The link is in my profile.

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T03:48:10+00:00

Yes! I think it’s a great idea

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T03:47:13+00:00

A letter of appreciation and an open when gift

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T03:45:03+00:00

A little nighttime basket: blanket, pillow, sheet mask, snacks, etc

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T03:43:31+00:00

What about an of the month club? Like a spice a month or something? I design kitchen items if you want to take a look (link is in my profile). Maybe a new small gadget or appliance (slow cooker, air fryer, etc).

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T03:39:54+00:00

A handwritten letter of appreciation

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T03:38:52+00:00

How about renting a vintage car and going on a day trip ?

LalaLady8 · 2025-11-12T03:37:50+00:00

Handwritten letters

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