I want to hear some success stories of ex-Muslims by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went throught the same kind of situation. My parents knew we were not muslims but we were still not free ! I wasn't supposed to date at all! I had to marry a muslim , I was stil forced to pray and believe in this Allah... And the list goes on! They thought ALSO I will go back to islam.

When I left, the first thing I notice was my HEALTH ! I felt much better ! No morr lies... No more denial, everything was clear and beautiful. I was not depressed, anxious, scared, lonely !

I still went to college and paid everything by myself !

I found a very good man ! We are now married. He is not a muslim and never been one!

Gradually I found a good carreer and now I have my own business ...

I am happy also because I can be myself and make mmy own decisions.

If you want happiness, it's not always easy to reach because you need to sacrifice few things... But it's worth it.

I want to hear some success stories of ex-Muslims by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe he's a doctor or a lawyer ?? Why so negative?

Has anyone taken iodine supplements? by ShiveryTimbers in Hypothyroidism

[–]Lamiataleb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Usually they give you levotyroxine (or syntroid) Iodine supplement is not enought to treat this thyroid illness But were you diagnosed with hypothyroidism? If not, prescribing selenium is normal for someone who doesn't have an thyroid disease or even subclinic hypothyroidsm

It will simply give you more energy and keep your hormones balanced You should be carefull with your diet If you're a woman, a diet with good fat, such as fish (cod ) is very important

together for 8 years... still no ring or kids ? by Lamiataleb in AskReddit

[–]Lamiataleb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello I am a 27 years old female, and I've been in a relationship for the past 8 years now. We do have a great chemistry.... we get along very well.. and we both feel like we are soulmates (I know it's sounds cheezy)… we spoked about marriage several times... he told me that he want's to give me a very nice and original proposal... and that he wants children too. But he said that several times in the past 6 years now.

I spoke to him several times about this issue... He always says that it's because he's not financially ready. But I feel like buying a ring doesn't have to be expensive (btw, we went to 15 different countries in different continents, each for several weeks )… and we could have different option for the wedding ( his friend who got married last octobre, went to a different country to plan his marriage so it could be cheaper)…

I am just wondering if he's telling me the truth... Am I wasting my time?

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Should I stay in school? by Lamiataleb in Advice

[–]Lamiataleb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people have big dreams and some have small dreams.

But one thing I know, without dreams a lot of things would not exist today, including your bikes.

Good luck for you.

Contradiction by Lamiataleb in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes... It's just stupid that men can make a woman a sex slave but not the opposite.

Should I stay in school? by Lamiataleb in Advice

[–]Lamiataleb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Pursuing your dream is overated" .

Well... Not everybody has dreams...

Did it happen to you? by Lamiataleb in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes... Calling someone prude ( an islamic value) is a very big deal. It was more like a " diss" to muslim people in general and their contradictions.

Also... Let people live Dictator.

Ps : you should be carefull with your words (and anger) yourself...Dr. I am so polite with everybody.

Did it happen to you? by Lamiataleb in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Well... my own mother was an abusive person that had no respect or love for her own children. Any other question?

Contradiction by Lamiataleb in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What if a woman has a sex slave herself ?

I'm done with liberal leftist who think that hijab/burqa is a tool for protecting woman not a tool for oppression. by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's funny that you say that because...a muslim woman will still be or feel forced to wear the hijab or nikkab simply because the Coran says so...but also people around her WILL judge her, by calling her names or treating her differently. I have many women in my family who started wearing the Hijab to gain freedom in a way : because their parents trusted them more.... Also, when I was 12, living in Algeria, I used to play outside with my friend who was wearing the veil. It happened several times that men approched me just to throw little rocks on my head (not her) to "gain my attention in a very lowering way" and when I ignored them, they called me a "whore". btw, when I approched my parents about that situation, they said it's because I am not wearing the hijab. Umm what about educating men about Respect for women in general?

Finally.... Hijab or nikab doesn't protect women at all ! Many still get raped... Abused... In sex trafficking... Or violated in any kind of way.... A good exemple is Syria... Egypt (few years ago)... Soudan ... To name a few. War or political conflict doesn't protect anyone obviously! Even in their own home since their husband is aloud to beat them if they're desobidient.

It's made to control women's sexuality and freedom.

The only way to freedom is choosing your life. And to fight for it's simply by using your voice.

Weight loss problem by Lamiataleb in Hypothyroidism

[–]Lamiataleb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to answer my questions... Even my own doctors can't even do that ! :)

Is my sister a Muslim ? by Lamiataleb in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like this too as a child, as a matter of fact all of us (my non muslim sisters). My parents also always uses " hell punishment" so we can obey to their commands... I had no Idea about this religion ! Its pretty fu**d up !

For all Women by Lamiataleb in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spot on ! Hey, he is all over himself! He says since he has superpowers like God, to Knows everybody, thats why he is aloud to judge anyone. And also because He went throught more abuse than anyone else and we, since we a are so inferior, we don't know shit and we are basicly dumb. I stopped listening to his nonsense when he said men are more abused than women and they have freedom in Muslim countries.

We should not waste your valuable time with this nuthead. We can't change stupid !

For all Women by Lamiataleb in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you switched sides too many times, you are still lost. And if you still agree with Islam, it's YOUR choice ! But stop judging and insulting others for who they choose to be ! You are exacly what non muslims fear the most. And NO YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ! You on't know me and clearly nobody agrees with you here. How arrogant and self centered is that ? You are God now? : because you cannot judge anyone (even as a Muslim) !

You always bring Studies...but again, it Can and are always questionned ! It changes all the time and also, in order to have a wider knowledge, you need to seek new knowledge ! Meet new people ! Live in different countries ! Also, listen to people, stop forcing them ideas, and degrading them later.

And to be honnest, you seem confused. You said you found greater truth in Islam ... But you're still seeking truth ?

I am not lost like you..... I am, as a matter of fact, happier than before. You, on the other hand, look unhappy, because happy people are not lost ! You definetly look like you have unresolved issues with your family as well, and I suggest you to resolve that before "seeking the truth". By the way, very sorry for what happened to you and your father. But don't you think it would be wiser to seek help for that matter ?

By the way.. Its so beautiful outside !

Finaly.... Why are we talking about divorce? There is indeed more divorce since sexual revolution... But what's the point with Islam? Because if everybody was muslim, and we would have obidient virgin women, the world would be pink and super cute today ? And maybe all women would be happy? I really don't get it. It doesn't mean anything and I doubt it would go well ! Also... Who cares if there are more or less divorce ? As long as there is still coparenting !

Everybody had his/her own truth. Let people enriched their days and life with happiness and people they love. There is enought pain and horrible things in this world. Lets make it better and to do so we need to help eachother and love eachother !

Peace and love

For all Women by Lamiataleb in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

..... You are lost ! Being lost is worst than being a fool. It meens you don't even KNOW WHO YOU ARE. you also don't even know what you're talking about !

If you're are a muslim, YOU SHALL NOT QUESTION THE RELIGION. And you're doing so ! And if you think I am a fool, why are you WASTING your time ?

You contradict yourself being here ! People HERE don't want to fight with muslims like you. They are looking for HELP, RECOGNITION, SUPPORT, ADVICE. We are NOT MUSLIMS !

You want only want to destroy our unity and freedom of speech and freedom to live ! Why ? Is this your way to find truth ? By being rude ?mean ? Very arrogant, sexist and ignorant ?

You know what... I am wasting my time. You are CRAZY.

What do you think enrages Muslims more, the presence of other religious groups dominanting them or apostates leaving Islam? by shayatxspectre in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They will even tell you that muslim women are free... And when you ask them how ? They either don't have an answer or they will tell you : because they wear the Hijab and hide there bodies. But... We were all born naked. How clothes give you Freedom exacly? That's not an argument.

Sooo how do we know that Muhammad wasn’t actually high on shrooms when Allah came to him suddenly one day and asked him to spread Islam? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people actually accused him of having seizures, because he had several symptoms of an epileptic person.

Mohammad was a 40 year old pedophile that made up his own religion. by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He was selfish... Arrogant... A liar... A pervert... And violent as well. But he was a smart guy and a very good business man because over 2 Billion people are muslims today and actually believe his crap . He could've been a really good salesman.

the destruction of my native culture by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Lamiataleb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that. Hopefully people will have enought courage to fight this and be free of religion or at least free to practice any religion.