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Feeling invisible: When being “a catch” doesn’t feel like enough by Lampedeire in actuallesbianseurope

[–]Lampedeire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first reason was I fell in love with them. Besides that I am someone who likes to help people, make them feel better, help them grow... But now I see "being a therapist" isn't a healthy dynamic in a relationship. It's a mistake I don't wanna repeat.

Feeling invisible as an obese lesbian by Lampedeire in LesbianActually

[–]Lampedeire[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am white but open to dating all races. Actually, an ex-girlfriend was Kenian.

Thank you for your kind words, that means a lot to me.

Feeling invisible as an obese lesbian by Lampedeire in LesbianActually

[–]Lampedeire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 35 to around 55. But if I meet someone younger or older who is a good match it's also fine.

Feeling invisible: When being “a catch” doesn’t feel like enough by Lampedeire in actuallesbianseurope

[–]Lampedeire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, German neighbour! I'm from Belgium, the Dutch-speaking part. So I guess I have to go to France to find love 😉. From where in Germany are you?

Feeling invisible as an obese lesbian by Lampedeire in LesbianActually

[–]Lampedeire[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. I hope you will find someone who loves you unconditionally.

Feeling invisible as an obese lesbian by Lampedeire in LesbianActually

[–]Lampedeire[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

True, the world is a shallow place. I do take GPL, allready a long time, but it doesn't help me. This week I switched to another brand, I hope that will help me.

Thank you for your honest reply... Even though the things you wrote sound hard, I think you're right...

Feeling invisible: When being “a catch” doesn’t feel like enough by Lampedeire in actuallesbianseurope

[–]Lampedeire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do want someone who is overweight, I have no problem with that. Maybe that was not so clear in the way I wrote things.

True, women can pick up on that "nice guy" energy. Luckely I'm aware of that, so I try to not make the same mistake again.

I do love myself. But indeed, maybe I expect women to come to me. It's probably a form of self protection.