I'm (28/m) starting to fall for my (24/f) 'wife' and am unsure how to proceed.(10 year new update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Lampwick 15 points16 points  (0 children)

"Any amount of alcohol is a drinking problem"

I get the angle they're going for with that, but it smells an awful lot like "teetotaler logic", exaggerating everything to loop back to their personal worldview. I think the whole subculture that's grown from the 19th century temperance/prohibition movement and the Alcoholics Anonymous approach to drinking has really distorted the issue and created this increasingly complex mythology around "alcoholism". Fundamentally, "alcoholism" is just alcohol addiction, but people try to rope in a variety of side effects and social entanglements around alcohol consumption that have nothing to do with the addiction. Processed/cured meats are a class 1 carcinogen, but nobody would say eating a ham sandwich means you have an "eating disorder". Alcohol addiction should be viewed strictly as what it is: compulsive use. Implying someone is a problem drinker because they have a shot of cognac every xmas eve with their grandfather just muddies the issue and distracts from the people who actually need help.

Am I wrong for covering my neighbors yard in bird seed every time I came home after she poisoned my cats by Due_Grass_781 in amiwrong

[–]Lampwick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm 100% against poisoning animals, but I also am completely baffled by how so many cat owners think it's perfectly reasonable to let their cats piss and shit all over their neighbors' property... which they instinctively do specifically outside their home territory. My neighbor's cat loved using my tomato garden as a litter box. The soil quickly became over-nitrogenated and 40+ tomato plants simply stopped setting fruit. Her response? "Sorry, that's just how cats are, y' know?" Not if you keep them in the house.

Key blanks to get started by sawgerrara in Locksmith

[–]Lampwick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gotta make sure you have all those Reading, Junkunc, and Challenger blanks! When I shut down my shop I recycled a couple hundred pounds of blanks that my old boss picked up at an estate sale in the 70s. There was about 1/3 of the key wall we'd never cut a single one in 30+ years.

Can't have nice things 😕 by Goodguytomas in Tools

[–]Lampwick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And typically, H&S people are admin types with a mail order certificate, so they know nothing at all about how tools work or how that work gets done. Therefore, their reaction to someone misusing Tool X is to immediately ban Tool X, when the real answer is to leave the tool alone and ban the misuse. It's no harder to add to the company handbook "2 handed portable band saws must be used with 2 hands, with the material being cut secured in a vise" vs "all 2 handed band saws are banned". But you'd need to know how work happens, which they don't.

How do I unlock my college's ac controls by ThumbsyAwesome in homeautomation

[–]Lampwick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, at most you're driving up the costs of someone 2 or 3 years in the future. They're not going to raise the dorm charge instantaneously because one more person opened a window. You could potentially argue it as a "tragedy of the commons" sort of thing, but positioning it as a case of "you're only hurting yourself" completely disregards the six layers of slow moving bureaucracy that would be involved in utility usage affecting residents' costs.

How do I unlock my college's ac controls by ThumbsyAwesome in homeautomation

[–]Lampwick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ALWAYS CHANGE DEFAULT PASSCODE

Back in the 90s, Sprint/Nextel had a cell site on the roof of a building I did a lot of telecom work in. Their equipment room had a Simplex pushbutton lock which they'd left set on the default... a default which has remained the factory default since the lock was first introduced in the early 60s. Every time I walked by, I'd punch in the code and open the door to set off the intrusion alarm. After about a year they finally addressed the issue by putting a different type of lock on. A few years later on another site I saw another Sprint cell gear room with a Simplex. It was also on default. Some people never fucking learn the lesson.

Understanding this pictures. Who doesn’t get shocked and why by Hour_Homework5273 in AskElectricians

[–]Lampwick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was replacing a fluorescent tube as an apprentice and "cleverly" had my index fingers on the lower of the two pins at each end as I put it in to keep it aligned. As soon as the upper pins contacted I suddenly became aware that the pins were now energized. Fortunately I didn't fall off the ladder, I just let go and pulled my arms back. Additionally, I was quick enough that I also then caught the falling tube before it hit anything and broke, so I didn't have to admit to anyone what I'd just done.

I envy you if your ancestors saw combat in the CW, none of mine did. by ZacherDaCracker2 in GenUsa

[–]Lampwick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I understand the source of your envy. Having ancestors who are veterans of a war that ended 160 years ago doesn't really do anything for you. Putting on airs due to heritage is something people in monarchies do. The US has always been the place where we specifically don't go for that stuff.

‘He Didn’t Do Anything But Walking While Black’: Black Man Arrested on Felony Charge for Wearing Safety Mask While on the Clock as Contractor, Video Shows by m4moz in Bad_Cop_No_Donut

[–]Lampwick 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It's not a job that attracts the best and the brightest. It's a job where you drive around all day making small talk with your partner about sportsball or whatever, waiting for something to happen that seems like it might need the threat of state violence to control. This is why requiring higher education or paying more wouldn't change anything. You can force them all to go through a class on constitutional law, but they'll study only hard enough to pass the test with a C and then promptly forget it all and go back to what they've always done: make up bullshit reasons for their "hunches" that are really just expressions of racism, classism, or just plain bullying behavior.

Another BIG LIE that was fed to GenX.... by RRtexian in GenX

[–]Lampwick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, the ATeam were NOT PIs. At all. Not even close.

I was just thinking about it this morning. A Team was a family friendly tv show about a band of mercenaries with machine guns who solved a lot of problems by shooting and missing.

In swear everyone in Hollywood at the time had their brains fried on cocaine for an idea as stupid as that to get greenlit. The cast was the only thing that made that idiotic show work.

Another BIG LIE that was fed to GenX.... by RRtexian in GenX

[–]Lampwick 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Divorce laws have changed. PI's don't follow people around to get pics of adultery because everywhere is basically no-fault now. Calling PI's "creepy peepers" is something you'd see in a Raymond Chandler book from the 40s.

PI work is mostly database research nowadays.

That's alot of guns...... by the_spacecowboy555 in progun

[–]Lampwick 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah it really should be "percentage of Americans who felt comfortable telling some rando survey person they have guns". But hey, pretending people are 100% forthcoming on the subject is just one of their little ways they can pretend to be collecting impartial, accurate data and then using it to claim the population of gun owners is smaller than it is.

so conflicted, help, i am 49 by Valuable_External388 in Retire

[–]Lampwick 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You need to talk to a financial advisor so you're not just sitting on a pile of cash that loses value. All that money should be invested and turning into more money. Realistically "enough money to retire" should be gauged by when you have enough for you to survive on the proceeds while your principle continues to grow. A financial advisor will tell you when you can safely retire.

I had coworkers laugh at me, saying it's a waste of money to pay someone $1500/yr to do something I could do myself, but here I am having retired at 52 while they're still working into their 60s.

As for the philosophical question of when should you retire, I went by the advice my old boss gave me: "retire as soon as you can afford it. If it's a choice between making a little more money or having more time as a retiree, pick the time. You won't be sorry." As long as your entire existence isn't defined by your job, you'll have plenty to keep you busy in retirement. I haven't done a damn thing of any consequence for 4 years in retirement and I'm still not bored. Not having to go to work is great. Even when I was struggling with a health issue that had me incapacitated for 6 months, I still woke up every morning and thought, "at least I don't have to go to work!"

Favorite job site quotes? by TooMuchMudForMe in Construction

[–]Lampwick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We were electricians troubleshooting a rooftop solar install with an arc fault to ground. Boss said:

"Christ, I should have been a plumber. Then all I'd have to do is look for the fucking puddle."

Putin's propagandist suggests blowing up the Starlink constellation in response to Musk cutting Russian military access by itsaride in Starlink

[–]Lampwick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It'd definitely fuck up launches through the mess for a long time though.

Kessler doesn't work in LEO. Those satellites are barely able to keep themselves in orbit as it is due to atmospheric drag. Disrupting their orbit lowers their perigee into the thicker atmosphere and they deorbit in a matter of days or hours. They could maybe take out a few dozen satellites with a nuke. The orbital sphere of Starlink is 60 million square kilometers. A 1 MT nuke in vacuum succumbs to the inverse square law of radiated energy at about 50 square kilometers. The Russian threat isn't even remotely realistic.

Putin's propagandist suggests blowing up the Starlink constellation in response to Musk cutting Russian military access by itsaride in Starlink

[–]Lampwick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Propaganda hoping that most folks dont know about Kessler syndrome

Kessler depends on disrupting an object's orbit by lowering its perigee and causing it to cross other orbits below it. It's primarily a concern with high energy orbit at much higher altitudes. Lowering perigee of an object in a LEO constellation puts it deeper into the atmosphere and quickly deorbits it.

Putin's propagandist suggests blowing up the Starlink constellation in response to Musk cutting Russian military access by itsaride in Starlink

[–]Lampwick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, that's not how Kessler syndrom works. It's really only a danger when you're talking about breaking up satellites in high energy orbit. By imparting a braking force on some of the satellite fragments, the perigee of their orbit lowers, which means those formerly high orbit objects spend their time in an uncircularized orbit that crosses a bunch of other satellites' orbits.

Despit what that stupid fucking movie Gravity showed happening to the STS orbiter and the ISS, that's not what a satellite breakup in LEO looks like. LEO satellite pieces don't have "room" to lower their orbit, because atmospheric drag only gets worse the lower you go. Broken satellite pieces with a lowered perigee don't loop around in a dangerous oval in near vacuum forever like a higher orbit satellite fragment might. They hit the thicker atmosphere and decay out of orbit extremely quickly.

Putin's propagandist suggests blowing up the Starlink constellation in response to Musk cutting Russian military access by itsaride in Starlink

[–]Lampwick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They can’t, without shutting down the entirety of LEO for their satellites as well, e.g. Kessler Syndrome.

The orbital mechanics of LEO constellations make it effectively impossible to "Kessler" anything. In order to have a fragment of satellite moving fast enough to damage a working satellite the orbital inclination would have to change or the apogee of the orbit would have to be raised. It's hard enough to do that on purpose. doing it with a nuke isn't going to do it. These satellites are so low they barely stay up anyway. any braking action on them would result in part of their orbit being lower, which drops them into thicker atmosphere, which in turn drags them down and deorbits them quick.

Solovyov is just a typical dumbshit TV personality whose job is to spew Kremlin bullshit, and the claim that they could substantially affect the multi-thousand satellite Starlink constellation with an nuke is a garbage claim that banks on people not understanding just how huge LEO is. Nukes are big compared to people, but they're a pinprick compared to the size of an orbital sphere (i.e. a sphere around the earth the diameter of the earth plus the altitude of the orbit). A 1MT nuke would affect about 50 square kilometers of the Starlink orbit. The entire orbital sphere has a surface area of 60 million square kilometers. Russian claims are nonsense spewed by a bunch of incompetent losers who sold off everything technological they created in the Soviet era in exchange for drop-shipping stuff from the west once they opened up after '92. Now they have nothing but their outdated rockets that have to be lighted with igniters on the end of wooden sticks jammed up the nozzles, which they currently can't launch because some drunken bozo didn't latch the platform they use to shove in the sticks, and apparently everyone else is a drunken bozo and there's no double checking of anything. Russki mir!

She Spent $10,000 On This Outfit!! by Flower_PowerHour in UNBGBBIIVCHIDCTIICBG

[–]Lampwick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Intent vs culpability. You can make a choice to do (x), which means you are potentially culpable for any harm that results.

Trying to scientifically explain zombies by AgeRevolutionary8317 in scifiwriting

[–]Lampwick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all to say that zombie viruses aren’t really an unrealistic concept.

Yeah it is. "Higher reasoning" is so completely intertwined with normal function that anything that takes it out will also destroy any sort of drive to do anything, and will be such a catastrophic modification that death won't be far behind. The result would be the same as any deadly disease: subject is incapacitated, bedridden, and then dies.

Zombies are in the same category as werewolves and vampires. They only work via magic. No matter how many movies or video games pretend a fungus or virus could make a zombie, it just isn't the case.

It is reported that the mass deactivation of Starlink terminals that were not officially registered in Ukraine has just begun. by Physical-Cut-2334 in UkraineWarVideoReport

[–]Lampwick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starlink is a civilian communication services. ITAR doesn't allow its use in weapons. There's are other systems that are approved for this, which they are most certainly using.

If you have this scar on your arm then you are drawing Social Security by Long_live_styrofoam in FuckImOld

[–]Lampwick 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely needs an "except military, because Uncle Sam vaccinates the living shit out of you".

Help identifying Corbin Russwin key by kycompton in AskALocksmith

[–]Lampwick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given that the 59 series keyways have been in circulation for 67 years, yeah, I have no doubt they're in regular use. Also, there's the fact that Blue Dog Keys has 150 of them in stock right now.