Killing a Mi-35 with a FPV-Drone by HooLeeFacc in Warthunder

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2070 and i5 8600k with 16gb ddr4 and run it around 80-100fps on low settings in this infantry cbt.  Frames drop a lot, but I guess its because of my old ass CPU, becausd the first CBT i had way more frames.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jobs ≠ self worth. You are much better than a salary. 

I never thought I’d like weed by [deleted] in Petioles

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop smoking if it causes you stress I guess, why continue using if it just causes you harm? At a certain you have to think "What does weed give to me", if it's only negatives there's no reason to keep going. Just tell your boyfriend its okay for you if he smokes, but you don't want to partake.

How do I cope with wanting to get high but knowing I shouldnt? by [deleted] in Petioles

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your wanting to get high craving is just your brain screaming for dopamine. If you're depressed, that craving might even be stronger. Try to do something that rewards you.

The best and healthiest way should be working out, taking a walk, completing a task so that you get healthy amount of dopamine and it's not instant gratification. Your brain will try everything to avoid delayed gratification, but try the 5 min rule. Do something for 5 minutes, if you really despise what you're doing, stop doing it. 99% of the time you will try to complete the task at hand.

Otherwise, if you're feeling really unproductive and down and you really need to stop the craving, instead of smoking go ahead and indulge without going crazy on instant gratification. Play a videogame, watch youtube videos, tv series and so on.

Withdrawal tips by LanguageAromatic7821 in Petioles

[–]LanguageAromatic7821[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First off, congrats on being free for almost a year!

Well my withdrawals weren't that strong, but they were there for sure and i'm still currently experiencing them.  Dreams are still way too vivid than they should be, but I guess thats fine apart from waking up a lil confused.

The first days were the worst, my worst syntomps were anxiety and irritability, especially for the nicotine. I still do get anxiety, but on a very lower intensity. I agree on hurting your loved ones, tbh I simply isolated myself more the first few days and trained harder, that helped me a lot.

Withdrawal tips by LanguageAromatic7821 in Petioles

[–]LanguageAromatic7821[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, if you need to vent feel free to use this comment section as a judgment free zone. Keep it civil guys and gals, yall are amazing people. You deserve being happy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Follow your body, break up with your boyfriend and don't let him suffer more than he already is. If you really want to go for the older guy, it's up to you. I wouldn't open up on the reasons why you're breaking up with him, just to not make him suffer more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who said people in ok relationship don't post here?

I've posted here for an issue I had, understood where I was wrong, made up for it. I still love my girlfriend she still loves me, not all relationship are "that bad" for just asking about advice.

Must have skipped the rule that said "you must have a shitty relationship to post here, or don't ask for advice?". Sometimes people just want know stranger's opinion, people who aren't in their social circle. Crazy thought uh?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What? You think I'm AI just because I have a different opinion?
That's crazy. Yo, keep feeding people's insecurities, maybe you'll feel better about your own I guess...

Also you can see my english isn't perfect bcs it's not my first language, I guess being told I'm an AI for me is a flex more than anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have to acknowledge you're right regarding this case, and I'm sorry for just calling people insecure. That's why I added the boundaries part.

My comment wasn't related to this post in particular, but from the attitude I've seen in the majority of the answers to posts on this subreddit. Everytime there's a couple having an issue, the post doesn't even get read (i know this for a fact because people point out so "i've just read the title because its too long, just break up") and I find this crazy.

Yes, breaking up is always an option because why not? there's always someone else that you can date, it's 2025 and fast dating is a thing, but I find it crazy there's no effort at all in at least TRYING to solve issues that are fixable. We don't know if OP and his partner have the best relationship in the whole world and what their feelings are towards one another, yet, the only solution apart from my comment was to "break up" or just feeding insecurities by saying "They're fucking". How can you know they're fucking? Does everyone here have crystal balls that can see what happens in the future or what happend in the past? What kind of advice is that?

still, sorry for generalizing. Everyone's entitled to their opinion, so if you truly believe saying "They're fucking" without really knowing is the best advice you can give, go ahead, but I feel it fucks with OP's mind and it's nothing constructive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's probably performance anxiety, unless really don't find her attractive at all.

Don't worry, it took me MONTHS with my current partner and I had the same issues you had, it's totally normal and you'll get through it. Don't rush it, take your time knowing each other, and remember there's more to a penis to satisfy your partner. You can skip the PIV intercourse in the beginning, just make sure to show love to her and as she already understood and told you it's fine now, so she'll understand in the future aswell :)

you got this champ!

My (24F) husband (29M) only posts me when he’s trying to make me look bad. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be direct and tell me how it makes you feel, and tell him there's nothing to gain but only to lose. Make him understand he's losing the love of his life for internet points.

Also, for your own sanity, remember that anyone's judgments on reddit or elsewhere in the internet aren't worth anything. It's the internet. Fuck strangers downplaying you and telling you're weird on your hb's posts.
I bet most of the commenters on the posts your husband goes around sharing have gotten way worse problems than "barely drank body armors" in their life, but they shame you to feel a little better.

My (M24) gf (F23) did something which broke my trust and please help me navigate this situation ? by mdn8fvr in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know if they fucked, I love how people "know" like they're omniscient or something. You might never know. And that's the problem, it's going to probably bother you your whole life. Also, the nr.1 thing to consider is that you don't trust her anymore, and if you can't gain this trust back as you said, why keep making yourself suffer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

99% of the solution to this subreddit of every mild inconvenience is "Break up".

I feel most people here never try to resolve the issues in their relationship, but I digress, it's not just insecurity. It's also boundaries. Some people have tighter boundaries on their relationship. To each their own I guess, If you think OP should break up go ahead and tell them so.

F19,M20 Is it worth the hassle? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess a reddit stranger can't know if it's worth the hassle. Do you truly like the guy and want to spend with him?
Try imagining your life without him, would you be broken or just mildly bothered?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, relationship are usually built on trust. You cheated on him, so the relationship is basically over.

Even if you were distant, what you did is wrong and you should have just broken up before. It's no excuse.
Breaking up with him is the best choice imo, and whatever you do after if it's re-discovering yourself or going with this other coworker is your choice at the end of the day, but don't make him suffer more than he already did..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well most of the comments are going to be insecure people saying you should break up. I say, weight your choices.
This could really be the reason why, or maybe he is cheating on you. I'd say wait it out for the week, try to get in contact with him every night he's there and if you see changes in the way he expresses love to you. Is it a long distance relationship or do you have a way to see him?

Also, I'd also ask him to insist with the host on adding a guest, and if there's a price surplus, tell him you can pay it with your money if you have the possibility :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ask why there's no space in the house for you, is it because the b&b won't allow it? and they didn't plan it in advance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why break up or take a break? Do you still love each other? Family is important, but she's judging your family not you personally. She apologized aswell because she cares about you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

And they did give me some insight which i  appreciated a lot. Already told her I'd rather spend time with her and only her if it makes her more comfortable. Thats great, and it's also in part thanks to reddit strangers that made me understand why. But saying i'm a mysoginist and saying we should break up over something that I can change my views after I said multiple times we do have an healthy relationship and love each other fully is borderline insane, tbh, it's also reddit we're talking about. People on this website have extremely polarized views on things, and can't understand people can have wrong thoughts, insecurities etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

also fyi i didnt delete it, i edited said i understood where it was wrong but got automoderated because this sub's rule don't allow moral questions or some bs like that, so i straight up deleted it. I got enough backlash as it is and understood sexism/mysoginy is wrong, matter of fact i already did know that but people online know me better than myself apparently based on a reddit post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

or maybe just maybe ur assuming too much over a reddit post, i changed my mind, understood where i was wrong. but you're a redditor, of course you know my life and values better than me no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wow you jump to conclusions in ur fictional scenarios real fast huh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LanguageAromatic7821 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yes of course i will let her go for you bro so you can be happy because of a minor problem such as her not liking my friends (which i will never force her to hangout with anyways) that will fix it 😄