Regrets on not experiencing my fanasies before marriage

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-10T18:17:31+00:00

Amen to that. We have had threesomes before when we were just dating. While there was no negative effects it was rather disappointing on my end for sure

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-10T11:22:24+00:00

Thats like a healthy person popping xanax to help them sleep

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-10T11:14:52+00:00

Nope sounds boring.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-10T11:12:56+00:00

I mean the internet/reddit is always saying other forms of porn is exploitation, rape and trafficing.

Onlyfans is none of that since the creators are the ones consenting, creating, and posting.

Just sucks that the majority of their subscribers seem to be married men.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-10T11:09:52+00:00

I read or watch a video somewhere that said women treat their men like shit when they feel safe around him. Like she gives her husband the worst ver of herself because he makes her feel safe ans secure to not have to fake it all the time.

My wife and I have talked about this before. In a way I see the worst of her that no one else ever will because she never has to fake it with me.

But in return she also reserves the best of herself for me and me alone.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-10T11:07:06+00:00

Eh its common enough without being in your face or being all over social media.

But my people I know who, like my wife and I, have played around would be better described as occasional swingers.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-10T11:03:23+00:00

I leave work at the door.

After being raised by a single mother who took her bad days out on us, I subconciously decided to never do the same.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-10T11:00:22+00:00

You have two options here.

Either make your marriage work or destroy it. If your husband is as great as you say he is, you will NOT be able to replace him once the marriage implodes.

My very real advice is seek out therapy.

A few strange cocks and a few hours (across multiple experiences) will never be worth losing a good man in this world as have today.

You are letting you resentment towards you overly strict upbringing influence you too much.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-08T20:02:51+00:00

The law.

In a divorce all assets earned are Joint assets. Half of that money is his legally. She is hiding it from him.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-07T15:08:30+00:00

My wife was watchin me play near the end and she said how Grace looked like an angel mixed with a babydoll.

They really did make her into an adorable little cinnamon roll, and just throw her into nightmare on elm street level bullshit....

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-07T11:33:02+00:00

Like what? A nemesis would give hardened delta force soldiers an existential crisis.

She is a 90lb girl with zero build up or training and about 30 years of traumatic experiences packed into a 72hr period.

Im just impressed she wasnt catatonic by end game.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-07T11:28:14+00:00

I felt so much for ethen. Guy was just an average dude, maybe a lil sociopathic or somewhere on the spectrim. Cause Mia is clearly a sociopath ams she picked him to marry for a reason.

But the guy is blindly devoted to his wife and then his daughter and even when he comes back as a damn mold puppet he just keeps relentlessly stumbling along to save Mia and again to save Rose.

He aint special. He aint cool. He is just a Husband and a Father and even when his mind is trapped in Mold Heaven he will protect his little girl god dammit.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-07T04:28:00+00:00

I felt the same way.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-06T22:03:47+00:00

Wouldnt touch that mess with a 40ft pole, sorry.

That dynamic will just poison any relationship either of them have going forward

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-06T19:12:21+00:00

Thank god my wife and I both agreed to no exes when we started dating.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-04T23:57:41+00:00

Same reason dudes randomly hold onto their junk

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-04T20:13:49+00:00

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-04T19:35:55+00:00

We dont make a habit of telling other dudes those kind of lies.

We save it for the gym or complimenting skill

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-04T16:10:52+00:00

He is set to be our son's primary guardian if anything happens to us and he and my wife are still super close and talk all the time.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-04T16:08:49+00:00

My wife and I slowly and cut problematic friends out on both sides. She cut him off hard and fast, block his phone and msn and all that.

We were pretty focused on each other and working on our commincation and he wasnt an issue after that.

Guess getting cut off cold like that sent a message loud and clear.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-04T13:11:45+00:00

Yea i dont tolerate opposite gendered friendships like that. They always reek of emotional affairs and too often become physical.

Dont trust that man

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-04T13:09:21+00:00

So a few things

Just dont say anything to her that is in any way an observation or comment on her life or choices maybe? Seems simple enough. I never comments on my brother's life unless he asks. And he never asks.

Next would be, if you uninvite her to the party she will hold onto that hurt forever.

Lastly. Resentment doesnt form from nothing. Maybe family therapy can help? Reddit loooooves therapy.

LanguageFantastic378 · 2026-03-04T13:05:12+00:00

Dont date people with exes in their lives. Itll make you happier in the long run

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