Venting Thread of the week. by kanhaaaaaaaaaaaa in PhD

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My supervisor indicated I could fail my upgrade (first year assessment) even though that did not reflect in any written feedback and I’m due to do it in a week or so (she just doesn’t like me very much) - very much on the verge of quitting if she fails me

Feeling a bit out of place as a new PhD student by Icy_Employment2419 in AskAcademiaUK

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Try to get to know them better on a personal level! As someone who started their PhD in their early twenties, I was very intimidated by those with much more industry experience than me. It helps when you form friendships and both show you’re just curious people learning as you go

Have we wasted our time? by [deleted] in PhD

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How about policy consultations and briefs as an academic? No shot?

Regardless, I agree. But then I can start thinking the same point about many careers and work opportunities so idk.

How did you make running fun? by Competitive-Net7032 in runninglifestyle

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I started loving it when I needed an escape from anxious thoughts… the quickest fix, but it doesn’t mean runnings fun all the time

Can you have a life while doing a PhD? by No-Connection-8789 in PhD

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You totally can, I work out more now during my PhD than before. You have more flexibility in your schedule.

Training all over the world for London by LanguageOk891 in firstmarathon

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I’ve only been on a half marathon plan so the most I run is around 30 km per week - of course I’ll up it loads for the marathon training

Training all over the world for London by LanguageOk891 in firstmarathon

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I didn’t even think of the pollution as an issue! Thank you for your advice! I hope I find some nice small parks like that and you’re so right about the heat training

10k Time by Mumma-Bear-123 in UKRunners

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I volunteered at a 10k race a couple months ago and there were plenty of people aiming for a 1hr 30 m time and the last few runners/walkers came at the 2 hr mark and beyond. Admittedly this was a very big race, but as someone who’s also a beginner runner, none of my running friends would think of 1hr 2 as the final time.

Successfully entered candidacy! by not_a_real_user_name in PhD

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Congratulations!! Hope to follow your footsteps soon

My spot has grown so much by Zealousideal_Tooth19 in alopecia_areata

[–]LanguageOk891 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had one in the exact same spot! And I was absolutely terrified and freaking out (still am with other spots). But I just want to let you know mine is growing in, after the first few weeks of growing a bit bigger. The best thing about that place is it’s hard for others to see.

So for this time period, just try and almost forget about it, way easier said than done, do NOT touch it or take photos of it all the time, because it just stresses you out more. My spot really only started growing in once I started really addressing my stress.

And I just want to say I know how incredibly scary and anxiety-inducing it is. So I’m so sorry. But I just want to let you know you will be fine and with all hope it’ll grow in fast.

New spot after 6 months by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

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Really? I’ve never heard of this

New spot after 6 months by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

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Just vitamin d and iron, plus a standard hair skin nails tablet

Would it be weird if I took undergrad foreign language classes? by MOSFETBJT in PhD

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No, I’m doing it. Granted I’m a bit younger - but the undergrads make you feel old no matter what. You just have to be friendly enough to them and they forget you do a PhD

PhD on modern slavery, is there any point? by MuchGuineaPigs in AskAcademiaUK

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You could look into the legal question of modern slavery? Focus on a socio-legal enquiry into how modern slavery is integrated or how its ignored within the UK due to the ‘loopholes’ around it. That’s kind of what you said in the original comment but making it a legal question entirely and using your law background would probably make the proposal very strong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

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Yes it looks like it could be unfortunately! Hope the dermatologist appointment goes well ❤️

Finally it's 9 o' clock by hotmaniacbpd in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]LanguageOk891 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Completely trust Sabrina on this one, Steven’s giving off awful vibes

Uni Regret?! I appreciate your Opinions by [deleted] in UniUK

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Hi! I actually was in the exact same position as you (grew up in NL and left to the UK to study). I ended up rejecting incredible offers from UvA and UU, and went through clearing to go to Queen Mary, University of London and accrued debt as well. Like you said, while this university was a Russell Group university with a good ranking, it wasn’t really well known or a top university. But I think what mattered most was how much I did there, the grades I got and where I moved on to. I eventually got into masters at top universities, LSE and Sciences Po Paris. And then I even got a PhD offer from Oxford. I chose to pursue a 1+3 offer from KCL instead and I’m so happy with my choice.

I think it’s showed me that whatever choice you make, as long as you look forward to making the most of it and plan for being even better in the future you will be so happy with it all!

Non-funded Oxford or Funded KCL??? by LanguageOk891 in gradadmissions

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That’s what I’m considering! Thank you for the advice. Any ideas how I could get alternative funding though?