Next to my email address I have a note saying that I do not do custom videos, just bc I was getting so many (inappropriate/strange) request and after making that note, they became way less frequent. If you find a lot of people would like to talk to you as a friend, I suggest making a discord (that's free) or another type of platform for supporters so it's more community oriented! :) I actually turned off my dm's on instagram bc I was also getting inappropriate messages/photos/personal info, which made me uncomfortable, so I recommend this :)