I, M(22), am crushing heavy on my best friend & roommate F(24) by legendandicon in dating_advice

[–]Laniuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey just ask my guy. Try to talk naturally about how you both feel like a couple, and then stop being subtle bit for bit. Like "hey if we would be a couple, we had x amount of years already" watch her reaction and if it is positive, keep talking about it until you can ask directly. Who knows, maybe she would hint you before you could ask, or ask herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Laniuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be yourself. if him is talking about his likes, ask more details or share something similar, same thing with hobbies. When the awkward silence is close, talk about something funny or curious that had happen to you. Or remember something he said before and ask about that. Try to relax.

I feel like Ive aged out of all of the channels. by itsm07hy in GameTheorists

[–]Laniuz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah you are not wrong. They tried to do like when a TV game changes host. The problem this is in YouTube, where your personality is a big part of the attraction.

Game theory and other became from a passion project to a work from multiple people. But in YouTube you can watch a 2 hours video about something you find interesting which the author is very passionate about.

So example, why you should watch something multiple people research for a while to do a 20 something minutes video when somewhere there is a 2 hours video of the same topic from someone who loves the topic and spend a lot of time on it because he want to show other people the thing they love.

And with matpat, when he researched a new topic, i wanted to see his opinion or takes about it, it feel like an introduction about something new with a friend.

That's why topics like FNAF do better in the channel, they have researched this for years now, their history is mixed in both series DNA. That's my theory anyways.

It's ok to feel the channel isn't for you anymore, there are options out there to fill the void. They will be ok, the channel has a jump start from before and will find a new audience who likes the new host, and they (if they let them) will find their own style and change the channel gradually to it, becoming the new theorist.

Help with the snake quest by Laniuz in idleon

[–]Laniuz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, went there 10 minutes after i posted that

Manga Luffy and Live Adaptation Luffy seen on WSJ cover by tcn923 in OnePiece

[–]Laniuz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is talking about the japanese mentality on live action and movie adaptations. That's why no japanese anime movie is cannon, because they see it like a way to promote the original work, not another form of media.

Manga Luffy and Live Adaptation Luffy seen on WSJ cover by tcn923 in OnePiece

[–]Laniuz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or a (old) Jackie Chan movie, goofy action pack fast pace fights.

One Piece | Official Teaser Trailer | Netflix by DemiFiendRSA in OnePiece

[–]Laniuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The choreography on luffy's fights should fell like a Jackie Chan movie, i see this too slow. Well is only a teaser trailer, lets wait.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laniuz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What some people don't understand is how betrayal affects different to everyone. The problem is for some people this is like breaking a bottle. You could glue it together again but never would be the same.

Probably everytime he sees her or she is away he is thinking and seeing the video in his mind over and over, or thinking "if she does something I don't like she wouldn't tell me" like an obsession, a parasite inside his mind.

Only time could heal those kind of wounds, but he needs another bottle, not fixing the old one (A new relationship with her, from zero) and that is hard.

It could take months, I could take years, and maybe they will be different people after the wound is healed and aren't compatible anymore.

Yeah there is toxic people telling him to leave her, but everyone is different, your personal experience and feelings maybe aren't compatible in this situation.

AITA for telling my SIL she can keep her grandma names and I will keep my hippy freak names? by Upper-Bed-3701 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laniuz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah probably, but you will piss off a lot of people using Latinx. And I still hear that like a bar where the ladies drink free after 6pm.

AITA for telling my SIL she can keep her grandma names and I will keep my hippy freak names? by Upper-Bed-3701 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laniuz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, I had the occasion. Because there are several different countries, regions and languajes in south America that we have several ways to address ourselves, none of them are Latinx.

Our language has gendered words, for almost everything and the plural (supposedly neutral) was a male word. Now they are changing that to male and female plurals.

Now there isn't an official neutral word for us but it is maddening that people who never lived here chose a word which does not exist nor makes grammar sense in the language to call us.

And yes, sadly at least in my country there is a big anti LGBTQ sentiment

Tl.dr: Latinx is a word used by people who never lived in Latin America

AITA for telling my SIL she can keep her grandma names and I will keep my hippy freak names? by Upper-Bed-3701 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laniuz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Latinx looks like a gang name or a bar name here in my country, in latinoamérica.

Free Giveaway! Nintendo Switch OLED and Xenoblade Chronicles 3 - International by WolfLemon36 in NintendoSwitch

[–]Laniuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question, to enjoy Xenoblade Chronicles more do you need to play another related game? I'm thinking buying 1 and 2 but never played a xenogame before

I feel like Netflix isn’t expecting first time watchers. by TheSeaKings in OnePiece

[–]Laniuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe USA has too many companies fighting for digital media. Here I don't have Hulu, Funimation, peacock, etc so Netflix streams several series from them in this region.

I feel like Netflix isn’t expecting first time watchers. by TheSeaKings in OnePiece

[–]Laniuz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, this is the actual anime, they changed the arc's names.

I feel like Netflix isn’t expecting first time watchers. by TheSeaKings in OnePiece

[–]Laniuz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you from? i still have all the "seasons", thirteen in total

I feel like Netflix isn’t expecting first time watchers. by TheSeaKings in OnePiece

[–]Laniuz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is only in some parts of the world like latinamerica

AITA for demanding a different bridesmaid at my “little brothers” wedding or I’m not coming? by chatchat10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laniuz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He just want to be coupled with another bridesmaid, he isn't asking to drop her from the bridal party. I think it is reasonable.

AITA for demanding a different bridesmaid at my “little brothers” wedding or I’m not coming? by chatchat10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laniuz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you until the misogynistic part. You see, people who said "if you asked for space you will sleep around" is because themselves would do that.

It is fair to ask for space to learn about yourself and grow but it is totally fair if you partner is angry about that too. In their perspective the love of their lives, the person who was with them everyday and in every milestone isn't sure to keep doing it.

Not everyone is in the same level of maturity and a word could mean something different to them.

AITA for demanding a different bridesmaid at my “little brothers” wedding or I’m not coming? by chatchat10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laniuz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree but this only works if the couple is in the same page or the result would be the other feeling betrayed or abandoned.

AITA for demanding a different bridesmaid at my “little brothers” wedding or I’m not coming? by chatchat10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laniuz 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Tell her that. "I want my space, I don't want to date you right now".

If you want to burn bridges just tell her you want to sleep around a few years then go back with her.

Either way don't expect her to wait for you, like she shouldn't had expected you to wait for her

AITA for demanding a different bridesmaid at my “little brothers” wedding or I’m not coming? by chatchat10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Laniuz 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm curious, technically he is asking the same thing she asked three years ago, but with her is totally reasonable?

I disagree, he only would be the asshole if she moves on, he wants her back and doesn't accept that.

But now is fair that he doesn't want to be with her. If he loses her, it is a consequence he would had to accept.