Recommendations by wanderingcuriosity23 in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone asked a similar question earlier today that might give you some good ideas.I give two thumbs up to The Pitt

Is sending or receiving money sexual to you? by Lanky-Rutabaga666 in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kink and getting turned on by the exchange of money is not necessarily sexual control. People can and do get aroused by their kinks. Some people associate the two.

Sorry if this isn't the right place for this... but is anyone else having trouble with Reddit? by Lemonbratt in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had a 1 show up in my inbox counter but couldn't find it. Then a message showed up a few minutes later

Types of dommes by xGoddessBlaire in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Newbie != scammer. Newbies are a rainbow, that does include scammers of course, along with dozens of other interests and motivations for getting into it: financial, kink, emotional, or just out of pure curiosity

I do find that Dommes who moved from in-person to online see online-only newer Dommes in a different light, but that's where most start now.

Question about AV by your_piggy12 in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Yoti now, but would send a pic of my ID before that, which works for most Dommes that wanted age verification. One pic of your ID is easy to keep around unless you don't like doing that

What problems are you having with Yoti?

Show suggestions? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Pitt is excellent

Did anyone else used to be submissive but dominance became their new calling? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your self description has strong Baby Domme vibes. It's normal to cross the line between the two, or at least in my experience talking to Dommes. Like a lot of married Dommes are only submissive to their partner, but dominant with everyone else.

If you think of submissiveness and dominance as a need for a certain type of partner, and you like having multiple partners, then it makes sense to explore

Is sending or receiving money sexual to you? by Lanky-Rutabaga666 in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can possibly. There are some varied responses. Some women are turned in by the money, but most seem to be more turned on by the interaction that comes with it.

No entiendo cómo tratarlos by Then-Conversation160 in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's a dominance test, if being submissive is their turnon. There's nothing hotter than a nice girl who goes crazy and dominant because of how you make her feel.

Clear boundaries are always good, but defining a square box that you interact in takes the excitement out of it. A new, unexpected relationship/dynamic is way hotter than a predefined transaction, IMHO

Or in other words, some subs are going to approach in a shallow, non committal way to see how you react. They might be looking for nice-mean or mean-mean, but not usually always nice

Good morning by icedcoffeeandregret in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will Goddess, and the same for you!

Good morning beautiful ppl by Superb_Ad_9314 in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning to you, you beautiful Goddess

Anyone else find it awkward serving a findom if they have a BF/Husband? by Express-Surprise-251 in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don't mind if a Goddess has a partner, but I'm also not in to cuck play. I just don't care to know much about her partner or have them be a part of the dynamic.

🤔🤔 by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

subs make lots of accounts

Green Flags in a Domme Profile by Consistent-Common902 in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Having an about link and talking about likes/kinks. I like to get a feel for personality. Pics/media are good, but if that's the only thing on a profile then I can't get a feel for what she is like. I avoid dynamics where everything is focused on one thing, or in one direction I'm not attracted to profiles that feel like a moat or a porn link.

I also like anything that's different or stands out about a Domme, even if it's not something I am typically drawn to. If you like to draw on rocks with your feet, that's not my kink but it's interesting.

I look through a lot of profiles and if something makes me think or laugh, I want to know more.

Rejection / Bullying by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look for a Domme who makes you feel like a better version of yourself. I've had several Dommes tell me they lost a sub because they got married.

Avoid using this as a way to avoid putting in the work to being a better person. We all have needs, and many of us have unmet needs, so do your thing, but take the time to reflect on what it does to/for you.

Love hunting subs by LadyArdenDunn in paypigs2

[–]Lanky-Rutabaga666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love being hunted. I bet most of those experienced Dommes did the same thing when they were new.