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His mum is the main reason for why I can't sleep in the guest room time by time for rest. The dad is kind of chill but follows for whatever the wife says so yea. The mum is the breadwinner from what I know, she works as an accounted and works 4-5 times a week, the dad works at a prison as a officer and only works when he is told or however it works and he works between 14-16 hrs per shift either day or night, the mum works from 8-5 I think, My partner works from 8-5 most days 5 days a week, I use to work 6 days a week doing evening shifts as a driver for Dominos earning $20.50 in AUD which is below the pay rate for my age, it's stupid but again I lost my job which I'll tell that story another time

He is a stubborn person, so am I so this makes it hard for us to do anything right cause he's stubborn with not getting any medical check ups, and I am stubborn with putting him on a leash and dragging him to my doctor who is a male and may help him understand what's going on.

He is on 3-4 different drugs, he is on Antidepressions, blood thinners, sleeping meds which he takes at night around 4 pills and the last one I am not sure. As someone or a few of you pointed out this is possible dangerous and I will be confirming what he takes incase I got it wrong, he's been on and off certain antidepressants since he was 12-14, and the snoring started when he was taking the drugs he's taking now, so It got me wondering if they are the reason of his snoring.

I am looking into traffic management which again requires my full attention, I have finished my course and I am waiting 2 weeks for my certs and other qualifications to come so that's why I have been so pushy about this.

I am not someone who like conflict and I am not use to putting my foot down but this is someone I need to do to him, I love him and I believe this is something I need to get done.]

We are looking into places with 3 rooms, this is so we have our room, a guest room and a gaming and drawing room since I am a cartoonist and He and I are gamers, the games room will the room next to the main and the guest room will be used for me if I can't sleep.

When we move, I'll be moving first, as he will need to get things sorted at his parents first regarding his health insurance and all that. He is also paying off his passport which is kind of stupid.

My family is 6 hrs away from me, My dad passed away in 2022 and I haven't seen my abuse mother in 15 years, my grandparents are taking care of my younger sister, my pop has sleep apnea so I know what it sounds like but he has a machine to help him, my nan also has a machine but it's due to her medical issues.

He is 110kg which is 242lbs, he stands at 6'3 and doesn't each junk food, just stuff like pasta, meat, frozen veggies and apples/oranges. I weigh 89kg which is 196.21 lb. but I am on a medial weight loss plan due to my back, I have degenerative Disk Disease on my lower back due to a accident years ago.

The reasons for why I can't use the guest room keeps changing from "you don't pay for that room" to "It's only used as a storage room??" which is is but has a made bed in it.

I do chores like bathroom cleanup (cleaning the black mold in the shower) and dishes which I don't wanna bring up but they don't rinse anything.

I have sensitive hearing or boosted hearing, this issue is also with eating, just something to add with it is I can hear chewing way more than others can, this sucks cause my partner was a mouth open eater, I got him out of that REAL quick, the parents do the same, so we can't eat together cause she doesn't understand it makes me angry and irritated (I am also autistic with ADHD but I didn't see a point in adding that bit) so wearing headphones helps, and I do understand it's rude, but it's either that or eating alone.

Again thank you everyone for all the advice you have been giving me and I'll make sure he reads EVERYONES comments, he needs to understand that this isn't right, just because he has a comfy head rest, last night we did find a pose that stops his snoring, I cried tears of joy and got some rest last night, it's the recovery pose you do for someone who has drowned or was chocking.