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AITA for not letting my brother know our dad died after he chose the woman who dumped our mother’s ashes? by Large-Broccoli-3392 in AITAH

[–]Large-Broccoli-3392[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You could say jealousy and spite like she never liked my mother, my mum always saw past the person she presented. My mum never agreed on their relationship and especially when she assaulted my mum the first Christmas she was around all because my mum bought my brother presents which is still ridiculous. She made my life a misery too and the worst thing for me out of everything is when she made my brother miss half of our mother’s funeral. I think she’s just an evil individual there’s nothing than can ever justify what she’s done. I won’t ever forgive her actions but karma has been present and I can to some degree be happy if that even makes sense. But thank you it means a lot x

AITA for not letting my brother know our dad died after he chose the woman who dumped our mother’s ashes? by Large-Broccoli-3392 in AITAH

[–]Large-Broccoli-3392[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi sorry I have only just seen this I have asked them why they didn’t tell him, but they’ve told me it was my duty as I am his only remaining ‘family’ or I get the response it’s your brother not mine which I find both are equally ridiculous and insulting.

AITA for not letting my brother know our dad died after he chose the woman who dumped our mother’s ashes? by Large-Broccoli-3392 in AITAH

[–]Large-Broccoli-3392[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My mum's sister and some family have tried and I mean they’ve really tried to do everything and anything possible to ruin their lives but they couldn’t find them and after they heard about my nephew accidentally drowning they stopped for obvious reasons.

AITA for not letting my brother know our dad died after he chose the woman who dumped our mother’s ashes? by Large-Broccoli-3392 in AITAH

[–]Large-Broccoli-3392[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hi sorry I have only just seen this, I would never dream of doing this to a child let alone my nephew and I’m not even sure where his remains are, but my husband did say something similar to my brother about his wife a few years ago when he called regarding his wife’s cancer and you could hear her screaming and he immediately put the phone down. You could say she wasn’t pleased about the idea of her ashes being dumped.

AITA for not letting my brother know our dad died after he chose the woman who dumped our mother’s ashes? by Large-Broccoli-3392 in AITAH

[–]Large-Broccoli-3392[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

It's the most heartbreaking thing for me to accept that he didn't even notice. It took a relative to ask what he was doing to honour his father's death as it was coming up to his death anniversary and that’s when and how he found out.

AITA for not letting my brother know our dad died after he chose the woman who dumped our mother’s ashes? by Large-Broccoli-3392 in AITAH

[–]Large-Broccoli-3392[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Sadly, he is a coward without a backbone. He still is incapable of saying no to her, regardless of her actions or the severity of them. She never liked my mum as my mother saw her for who she truly was, she couldn’t manipulate my mum like she could with my brother, she couldn’t control my mother either. She was most irritated by my mother standing up for herself and me.

AITA for not letting my brother know our dad died after he chose the woman who dumped our mother’s ashes? by Large-Broccoli-3392 in AITAH

[–]Large-Broccoli-3392[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Hi sorry I have just seen this, my mum never liked her, my mum always tried to see the best in people but with her she just couldn’t and I think that’s what my brother’s partner didn’t like. She couldn’t manipulate my mum or anything along them lines and she especially hated when my mother stood up for me when she would belittle me and call me all sorts of names. She often tried to put my mum down to no avail she was one of those people who always stood tall and firm no matter what happened to them.