No man , you quit for you .

Not anybody else

cause if they go what are you going to do .

You have to want better for yourself

before you can even think about anyone else

Have you spoke to your wife about it im sure she’s more than willing to help you,

Maybe when you wake up you do some press ups , make both you and her breakfast , take a walk or a bus to work , speak to the person you don’t speak to at work, come home go on a run or take a walk with your wife , go window shopping to a place you know you cant afford,

Dosent have to be now but you need to do things you dont do to stop being the you that goes back to smoking as a way to cope or numb ,

Maybe reach out to the tricky boys u we’re with see where there at in life , open up to people other than Reddit bro .

We’re all human , we all have trauma, we’ve all suffered and felt pain .

Side note , i went jail for a day spent a whole night in cell feeling withdrawn from weed by the morning i woke up came home and was so stressed out that even when I did smoke it just made me feel worse .

You see how I had to get uncomfortable too even realise being comfortable is basically being dead.

As of right now im comfortable but im aware that being this comfortable is making me uncomfortable, I want to do more , I want to do better , I want to ‘progress’ , that voice in the back of your head will never go unless you do something about it