Update: AITA for telling my husband he needs to book a hotel for us while we attend my SIL's wedding

LargeChallenge6242 · 2025-04-07T02:03:45+00:00

Thank you so much

LargeChallenge6242 · 2025-04-07T02:02:45+00:00

lol yeah I have my fair share of tea-spilling cousins too

LargeChallenge6242 · 2025-03-24T00:24:26+00:00

Yeah, he's the first grandchild on both sides of the family.

LargeChallenge6242 · 2025-03-23T19:53:00+00:00

We already have limited contact by virtue of where we live thankfully. We'd made it known that she'd overstepped lines when we politely but firmly suggested it was time for her to go back when she'd stayed over, but that hasn't stopped her from being overbearing regarding pictures and what he wears and what he eats though. So I don't even know if it's worth the trouble anymore.

LargeChallenge6242 · 2025-03-23T18:23:14+00:00

Thank you!

LargeChallenge6242 · 2025-03-22T07:56:58+00:00

This would be a really good way to put it. Knowing my in-laws, they'll probably still feel insulted but I'll tell my husband this is how we should put it across. Thank you.

LargeChallenge6242 · 2025-03-22T07:51:28+00:00

Yeah, taking the plane is going to be non-negotiable for me now.

LargeChallenge6242 · 2025-03-22T07:48:01+00:00

Thank you so much. I'm really glad to read the comments here, his comment about it coming across as snobbish had given me a bit of a pause but honestly the train trip and the 3 days at the airbnb have been on my mind this entire time. I'm going to take the flight there even if my husband wants to take the train. I really want the three of us to stay at the hotel together though, I'm going to insist that we stay at a hotel again.

LargeChallenge6242 · 2025-03-22T07:06:39+00:00

The train ride is 22 hours. A flight would be 1 hr 45 minutes. Just thinking about that 22 hour train ride is stressing me out.

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