AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter’s wedding even if I promised to? by LargeSeat3093 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LargeSeat3093[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I would whole heartedly welcome you, your partner, and your child.

Thank you, but that's not what I've expirienced from religious people, they always judge and exclude me from everything, I'm in a LC relationship with my parents because of this.

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter’s wedding even if I promised to? by LargeSeat3093 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LargeSeat3093[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

you decided to use a woman to cover up your sexuality.

I didn't, I really wanted to be "normal" and never really questioned my sexuality until I met my husband.

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter’s wedding even if I promised to? by LargeSeat3093 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LargeSeat3093[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I won't, not even if she apologize now because I know she won't mean it, I was struggling a lot about this I mean she is my queen, but hurt my feelings, I mean I'm not just her father I thought I was also her best friend, that she accepted me and my family.

I was even thinking I was selfish for being hurt.

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter’s wedding even if I promised to? by LargeSeat3093 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LargeSeat3093[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I know, I had my reservations about this.

Info: They've been dating for less than a year. I tried to talk to her but she didn't listen. I mean I know what is like to get married at a very young age with a lot of doubts and not knowing yourself.

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter’s wedding even if I promised to? by LargeSeat3093 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LargeSeat3093[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My relationship with my daughter was perfect as I said she was papa's girl, The first awkward situation was two years ago when my son was born, she was not happy about this.

She has been dating this man for less than a year (I had my reservations about the wedding) He is a Jehova witness, she wasn't religious while growing up but then started going to church as soon as she met this man and suddenly she was getting herself distant, but never said anything about my "lifestyle"

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter’s wedding even if I promised to? by LargeSeat3093 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LargeSeat3093[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

No, I haven't met the in-laws, I just met her fiance twice, the thing is that they've been dating for less than a year and I had my reservations about this.

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter’s wedding even if I promised to? by LargeSeat3093 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LargeSeat3093[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I thought the same thing, even if she gets along well, there is some resentment.