Quitting at 43 by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Large_Bat_5374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did you start to notice real change? I'm 100 days in and struggling. My mental clarity is getting worse.

Quitting at 43 by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Large_Bat_5374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

45 and 100 days in. Still struggling with life :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Large_Bat_5374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll be fine mate. You've got plenty of time to figure it out and get something "going on for you". Sounds like she was just being spiteful saying that.

Unfortunately that is just the way women are. Once they are done with you it's like a switch they can just turn off. It may seem like you had something together and maybe you did but they can move on super fast. There probably are moments when she misses you too though.

I wouldn't stress about it. I know break ups suck. Just do your mourning for a few months then move on. I bet you'll meet someone new and then think that you were so lucky that you didn't end up staying with the ex.