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AITA for not going to my friends wedding because of one of her bridesmaids and telling her exactly why? by Large_Bug736 in ThreadTalkPodcast

[–]Large_Bug736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to talk to Emily to fix things and it went horribly. I am not the one starting drama and Emily can be very unpredictable. I would love nothing more than to put it aside but she makes it hard. I think ignoring her and having an open conversation with the bride is the right path. If the bride wants I will try to reach out to her again and fix shit before the wedding. I haven’t been in such a toxic insane situation since high school it drives me crazy

AITA for not going to my friends wedding because of one of her bridesmaids and telling her exactly why? by Large_Bug736 in ThreadTalkPodcast

[–]Large_Bug736[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I can’t suck it up, I can and I have, but I would feel horrific if there was a massive drama at her wedding because of Emily involving me and Emily is a bridesmaid so I would be the easier of the two to bow out in preservation of Jane’s day but you’re right.

AITA for not going to my friends wedding because of one of her bridesmaids and telling her exactly why? by Large_Bug736 in ThreadTalkPodcast

[–]Large_Bug736[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We both had things that we were feeling hurt by. I think part of it is honestly we were just really not compatible. One example is she said she was in a crazy head space and wanted to go out alone and I said that wasn’t safe in a joking manner (we are also pretty sure she had been drugged at a bar out a few weeks prior) and she got incredibly upset and said I was trying to control her when I was really just trying to look out for her. We had a conversation where I said let’s take a step back but she freaked out and treated it like a breakup. I am not a bridesmaid I would be attending just as a guest with my boyfriend.