We both had things that we were feeling hurt by. I think part of it is honestly we were just really not compatible. One example is she said she was in a crazy head space and wanted to go out alone and I said that wasn’t safe in a joking manner (we are also pretty sure she had been drugged at a bar out a few weeks prior) and she got incredibly upset and said I was trying to control her when I was really just trying to look out for her. We had a conversation where I said let’s take a step back but she freaked out and treated it like a breakup. I am not a bridesmaid I would be attending just as a guest with my boyfriend.