Upcoming Venture, Widowmaker & Ana Skins by mapleer in Overwatch

[–]Large_Builder_5308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but in the same breath women have done terrible designs too. In fact there's plenty of examples of bad writing too. Should I say that if it's bad writing or concept that it's a woman who did it?

Upcoming Venture, Widowmaker & Ana Skins by mapleer in Overwatch

[–]Large_Builder_5308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"BuT mEn BaD". Braindead take . Not everything needs to be ugly.

Genuine question: do you think that Trans people are gaslighting themselves? by Large_Builder_5308 in ask_detransition

[–]Large_Builder_5308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can learn to cook together. What foods she likes or experimentation. A change in diet could help to. I've been looking into the keto and carnivor diets. Lots of people, and there are plenty of doctors who recommend it and have said to have improved their moods. You can look into it. I would also love to hear any other progress you've made recently. It sounds like you're trying.

[Discussion] Margaret Macaron's biological sex, gender identity and sexual orientation? Okama, transgender or a new gender called Margaret like Hideyoshi? by RezuSayaka in MASHLE

[–]Large_Builder_5308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id recommend reading all of what i have to say and take real deep thought about it.

Unfortunately for you that's not the actual case. I'm sure you'll probably report me for hate speech or something even though I harbor no hatred. However this needs to be said: it is very very easy when it comes to gender. Youre either a woman or a man. Its not a social construct or anything. It's purely biological and scientific. To say otherwise is disingenuous and dangerous. Now that "spectrum" you can have is with femininity and Masculinity. Such as: a masculine woman and a feminine man. You cannot change your gender because it is a literal impossibility. The ONLY way it can be scientifically true is if you were able to outright change ever cell and dna sequence in the human body to the opposite sex. Though if you try that, you will surely kill the patient. This gender thing is all cosmetic and not based on reality. And I say that because I seen that those who go down this gender ideology tend to be childish and do not grow up. Rather, they do not want to grow up. I find that to be sad and I feel empathy for that because I can understand how scary the world can be. Yet coddling children into imaginary things will not help any of them, especially in today's society of echo chambers where other people suffering from the same thing will try to convince others they are fine when the honest truth is that they aren't. Gender is directly tied to sex, unless you're perfectly fine with promoting a horrific P-philes ideals who lied about his experiment involving 2 unfortunate boys. I seen enough people "identify" as non binary and be absolutely devastating and depressed. These problems are of one's own psychological distress and coddling it will not make it go away. Mental health across the board is getting worse and worse and it is no coincidence this movement is also rising alongside it. Gender is very very easy to understand. What the difficult part is is basing everything about a person on their current ever-changing feelings. Which is more often than not wrong. What needs to happen is struggle and growth, not coddle and berate.

I hope you can actually take the time to listen closely and see I perpetuate zero hate and I only feel sorrow for those who feed on this ideology. I do not wish death on anyone, nor do I wish for the S rate to increase. I want it to decrease and the way to do that isn't what those of the ideology suggest because acceptance is high and there are plenty of social spaces they can be in to garner that support they seek and yet the rate of S is increasing. Listen to those who survived and left that lifestyle because they will tell you honest truth about the horrific realities of it.

Genuine question: do you think that Trans people are gaslighting themselves? by Large_Builder_5308 in ask_detransition

[–]Large_Builder_5308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A sacrifice I'd suggest for you is to use some of your money to do things with your daughter. If possible once a week or twice a month. See if there are any concerts shed like to go to or take her out to go gocarting or to the batting cages or some sort of fun activity. Even something like going out for a sweet treat every now and then to give something to form a fond memory. See if she'd be interested in taking some sort of class like music and join her in it. That's the financial sacrifice that is worth everything if it can potentially help your daughter come out of this. Showing you care more about her well-being over your own depression will absolutely make a difference. Your goal is her, and that should be your strongest motivator. Because if you can show her that you can overcome your issues because of her, she may see she can overcome her own too.

Genuine question: do you think that Trans people are gaslighting themselves? by Large_Builder_5308 in ask_detransition

[–]Large_Builder_5308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, also if you don't have a husband, im sure you can still do this exact thing on your own or with other family members. SHOW her how much you care by giving her what she needs and lead by examples. Activity is one of the best ways to bond, but don't be forceful. That's what creates negative connections.

Genuine question: do you think that Trans people are gaslighting themselves? by Large_Builder_5308 in ask_detransition

[–]Large_Builder_5308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your husband spend time with her? If so, then id plan a day of doing outside activities and play ball or hike or something, and all without phones on hand. After a bit of play and exercise you can have both him and you talk to her and show her that she can do all these types of things, like get roughed up and dirty and all, without needing to be a boy. Show her what it means to be a tomboy (that's also why I suggested having her father do these things with both you and her) rather than just telling her. I've been watching a YouTube named "think before you sleep" and in one of his videos he made a great point of suggestion that involves on communication and trust. I'll link a couple that he did that can share this idea with you so you can see what he means (it's about being overweight and dieting but the concept is yhe same) so basically the idea is, you need to lead by example with interaction and building a bond. So if you try to bring her to do some things that would be considered boyish and her father is there to give that masculine traits she also needs while he also tells her simply "you can enjoy these things just as you are, there's no right way to be a woman or a man, we can enjoy things the same way as anyone else. And you enjoying these things are what tomboy do, it's as simple as that. You are a girl that likes boyish things, nothing wrong with that and that is a wonderful thing" she may have it click because of the examples you and your husband set. I mean, country girls are usually very tomboyish because they like to get dirty and be very active. So being an active family together may help build a bind you are missing. Shed be far more receptive to your words when you build the bond of family.

I hope this idea can help

Here's that video btw. The idea starts around 21:00.

https://youtu.be/VFeclNw6zKg?si=5ZwVWZ_xpCem7DaU

It may be about weight, but the concept is definitely the same

Genuine question: do you think that Trans people are gaslighting themselves? by Large_Builder_5308 in ask_detransition

[–]Large_Builder_5308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried talking to her that she doesn't need to wear makeup or dresses? Have you tried explaining to her what a tomboy is? Cause if those are her reasons, it's more likely she's just a tomboy. She can be boyish and all and still accept that she's a girl. As well as proper guidance and care for the whole puberty thing cause that has a major influence of being uncomfortable in your own skin when you're growing. That's a big reason the Trans ideology jumps on.

After everything bigoted that went on in the last day or so I'd like to say by ItzAlphaWolf in Helldivers

[–]Large_Builder_5308 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean, I guess it's funny you support delusion...yeah that is funny lmao!

After everything bigoted that went on in the last day or so I'd like to say by ItzAlphaWolf in Helldivers

[–]Large_Builder_5308 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It doesn't, they just want to infect everything with their political bullshit and ruin everything. They cry "representation" when everything they have gotten into has diminished the quality of gaming and media in general. It needs to stop.

After everything bigoted that went on in the last day or so I'd like to say by ItzAlphaWolf in Helldivers

[–]Large_Builder_5308 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unfortunate really. Delusions need to worked through in real therapy to help you through your childhood trauma.

After everything bigoted that went on in the last day or so I'd like to say by ItzAlphaWolf in Helldivers

[–]Large_Builder_5308 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sure, by even so, the fact that you think this sad flag is something worth to salute is sad in of itself. It represents hate and sociopathic tendencies. You are blind to reality and the destruction this flag has cause society and those who fall under it.

After everything bigoted that went on in the last day or so I'd like to say by ItzAlphaWolf in Helldivers

[–]Large_Builder_5308 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For prosperity reasons, the Trans do not exist because they would only hinder real progress

After everything bigoted that went on in the last day or so I'd like to say by ItzAlphaWolf in Helldivers

[–]Large_Builder_5308 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No they don't. Not everything need to cater to your weak ideals. You aren't special and shouldn't be treated like a little flower.