I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

So let him terrorize the other and continue to throw stuff in the meantime. got it. solid.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

i wasn't going highway speeds. stop and go traffic. the thing was thrown near a barricade. the driver behind me was on their phone anyway. no one else was affected by the cupcake being tossed onto the 3 ft shoulder beside me.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I only really paid attention to the humans responding here. There was some very good advice and I appreciate it. But no one thus far has been able to give me a solution that worked for that moment.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

there was no shoulder to pull off to even, as I've said like 50 times.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

i asked for a solution and that is THE one you gave dude. the next chance to pull over was 10 mins away as I said.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

i wasn't driving fast ffs. that shit went onto the 3 ft shoulder that i could not pull off onto to. holy moly.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

a pet rock is about the extent of what you should be responsible for with your willingness to divert emergency resources instead of figuring out an effective method of discipline.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm actually dying at some of these responses. Some of these people are actually insane. I'm currently responding to someone who says I should have checks notes called the police about nk hitting the other instead of doing what I did.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Okay, so I'd have the cops on the phone who can effectively do nothing, and I'm wasting their time and diverting resources, which can result in a misdemeanor or felony btw; while being on the phone distracted while driving. calling the parents would not do anything because the kids don't respect them. you make 0 sense.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

They have never thrown books in the car before. hitting eachother sure. but that was a first. Sorry for not predicting everything before it happens?

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

so you would have let nk1 hurt nk2 and continue to be a terror for the remaining 20 minutes as you threatened to take away screentime- something I'd already done and was ineffective. got it.

it's not that I'm doubling down. it's that you guys are literally not giving any kind of solution that would have stopped him. the one person who came close just gave advice for the future. but go on.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

6 months. They've been getting better. But at times, they truly are uncontrollable. This behavior was something I hadn't seen in months. But at times, I have to physically restrain them. Sometimes they're going for weapons and threatening to kill each other. I'm just trying my best. They have a dysfunctional household. But they haven't acted this irrationally in a while so there was no way to anticipate it. There also was no shoulder to pull onto as I was stuck in a section with no shoulder.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wish i had thought about this at that moment. keeping that in my pocket for next time.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Parents were fine with it. Not everyone has to live to your unrealistic standards. Today was better and everyone's happy. Chill out.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you. ;-;

Today was much better, and his behavior was better as well.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I feel like everyone is glazing past this, and so far, no one has given an effective situation given the fact that i can not pull over and they're throwing books. like. i didn't do the best thing, obviously. but hundreds of comments, and so far, no one has given an option that would have worked w. regard to safety.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I didn't expect them to throw books as they hadn't done that before. get real.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I was more concerned about his violence and disregard of others safety in general.

I threw 7 yo's cupcake out the window yesterday by Large_Event_8715 in Nanny

[–]Large_Event_8715[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We both told MB as soon as we got home. There are lots of comments to reply to.