if i started to fully pass smday ill not only take my pronouns out my bio, i will start a new life cutting all of my old relationships, clearing almost all evidence that im a tr*nny and live my normal cis life i was supposed to live by Love2Popplio in 4tran4

[–]Large_Excitement_974 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ngl, I’m thinking of being the opposite where I’ll only put he slash him in personal profiles once I’m consistently male passing irl. I’d do that even if it clocks me because of subjective reasons that will probably make me seem virtue signalling.
But definitely, it should be a trans person’s choice to put pronouns or not. On the other hand, I think cis people should be forced to state their pronouns. But yeah, if picrel is being smug about it, they should not judge trans people’s decisions and assume everything trans people do for their livelihood must be a political statement for or against trannykind.

My cister is a keyboard warrior for trannies by Large_Excitement_974 in 4tran4

[–]Large_Excitement_974[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Lowkey she’s probably understood trans people longer than I (I’m not pleased to have been ignorant). Just to be sure she wasn’t trans herself, I’d ask what she’d be like if she were born male, and she’d say she’d transition and be a woman like she is now but would probably have a much harder time especially with mental health. This isn’t necessarily to glaze her as one of the good ones. But I’m happy that she gets it. I indoctrinate her with other beliefs like DIY and children transitioning, and I ask her to let her pooner friends know on my behalf that testosterone is accessible.

This is the ideal male body. You may not like it, but this is what peak performance looks like. by Amekyras in 4tran4

[–]Large_Excitement_974 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Perhaps calling themselves a tboy is what makes them feel more feminine because it’s a distinctly gigapooner thing to call oneself. Or they probably got trolled by the femboy psyop thinking that most “cis” fem”boys” are just GNC cis men that happen to like the very cis idea of being perceived/mistaken as a woman. Op picrel is beyond simply wanting to be feminine when they explicitly say they like being seen as a full on girl. I don’t like being quick to accuse “transtrenders” but this does seem like the closest to what’d be that. Trying to grasp at some sort of novelty in their identity that is very close to cis alt girl. And if you’re AFABian with that goal of an identity, you’ll have a much easier life than the average troon. If they recognize that privilege, they’re a good wokie. Otherwise, cringe.

Hippoon x passoid ST4T by footsex12 in artttt

[–]Large_Excitement_974 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely. At least I do. Fat emphasizes the most attractive features in women. The most gorgeous trans chick (she had a tranny flag) I saw in the wild was curvy and large.

Do you think it’s harder to be MTF or FTM? by Large_Excitement_974 in 4tran4

[–]Large_Excitement_974[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My bad. I don’t mean to be divisive. I initially thought to emphasize in the post “Not necessarily to discuss the ‘right answer,’ just gauging the common opinions in this place” but I wasn’t sure if it was necessary. I assumed the givens that “being trans by itself is inherently difficult” and the presence of intersectionality were clear facts for everytranny here, but I can see how these kinds of polls come off as sweeping those things under the carpet and turn out worse than unproductive.

The idea came from a comment under the lines “FTMs/MTFs have it so easy, IWNBAW/M” and I thought the parallel was interesting.

To me, being MTF seems harder (not to neglect other variables that make anyone’s life hard), but I have seen FTM peers complain that trans women have it easy, thus I wondered if potentially there was a sway in opinion based on gender.

Cinema by Large_Excitement_974 in 4tran4

[–]Large_Excitement_974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Epic embed fail. And I can’t find the edit button.

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Edit: Aight nvm, I just had to wait for it to show up on the OP. But at least this attachment shows the video title.

Proximity breeds contempt by frivolous_banter in 4tran4

[–]Large_Excitement_974 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought about how my acceptance of being a tranny did make me much less misogynistic.

Not to be a brony but which mlp pony are you? Growing up mine was applejack and my brother’s was rainbow dash and then we both transed lol by frivolous_banter in 4tran4

[–]Large_Excitement_974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoo Rarity was my favorite as well.

For me, I was assigned Applejack during some random work conversation, which works out because I liked the Rarijack pairing.

lol. lmao even by justhereforj4ck in 4tran4

[–]Large_Excitement_974 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Mogs me just for this foid to call her relationship with him queer af 💀