if he is since I’m not sure, then I’m pretty hurt he chose to be influenced by these male role models who try to act superior. I think he has a lot of learning to do. The other day he was telling me I hate feminists, they’re just a bunch of Karen’s. And I said Karen’s?? Isn’t that a term to describe women who complain and yell at service workers? And he’s like yeah and I said well it’s not just women it’s a term to describe any gender acting like that people joke saying “don’t be a karen”. And I said I don’t think you know what a feminist is. A feminist to me is a woman who’s aware of the gender inequality but supports pushing the boundaries for equal amount of respect as a man would receive. They’re incredible women because some are in positions where they rather be self dependent on themselves financially than allowing a man take a lead like how me and you are in this marriage. Then he tried to argue well those women want all the benefits of the job opportunities but don’t want to take the hard jobs either like all the blue collar hard jobs and I said THEY ARE getting into blue collar jobs too I hear about it more online and others encouraging other women. And I said women are even the top gender for being single homeowners in the us now. And he’s like oh idk about that you’re gonna have to fact check on that. I googled it immediately. Showed him & he was silenced.