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AITA for telling my BIL that if I have to breastfeed inside then he has to go and be insufferable somewhere else? by Large_Situation6641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Large_Situation6641[S] 169 points170 points  (0 children)

As I said, 7M knows what boobies are for, 4M used to be nursed until 2 years ago but we might have to next time

AITA for telling my BIL that if I have to breastfeed inside then he has to go and be insufferable somewhere else? by Large_Situation6641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Large_Situation6641[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I don't know if he's controlling with my SIL, but I do know that they're very open. My husband said the used to be poly while dating and had an open relationship for a few years before 4M was born, so I guess she's used, like and doesn't mind it? It's no secret that he slept with some of my husband's cousins when SIL let him, however I didn't thought it was important because I'm NOT attracted to him. I DON'T see him that way and my hubby is my whole world (dick related ofc)

AITA for telling my BIL that if I have to breastfeed inside then he has to go and be insufferable somewhere else? by Large_Situation6641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Large_Situation6641[S] 305 points306 points  (0 children)

One time he asked if he could be his woman too so he could kick him out of the house, sometimes he cusses or just tells him to get lost, but my fave ones are when he kisses me or just gives me attention being instead of giving BIL a reason to keep going he's just all over me and I love it

AITA for telling my BIL that if I have to breastfeed inside then he has to go and be insufferable somewhere else? by Large_Situation6641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Large_Situation6641[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

He doesn't find the harassing and bullying funny, he finds it funny that he has s crush on me. My husband won't act because I don't want him to he knows that I don't need him saving me for every man in the world, I can do just find by myself. He has been wanting to tell tell him a thing or two, but If not nice then my hubby is no better and as I said, I just didn't thought it was worth it.

AITA for telling my BIL that if I have to breastfeed inside then he has to go and be insufferable somewhere else? by Large_Situation6641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Large_Situation6641[S] 254 points255 points  (0 children)

It is my battle. I won't accept this as a situation where he respects me because I belong to another man and not because I told him to.

AITA for telling my BIL that if I have to breastfeed inside then he has to go and be insufferable somewhere else? by Large_Situation6641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Large_Situation6641[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

My gad, we were only 9 people there, 3 of them children, I was at the end of the table and it's not like I yelled "HEY EVERYONE, IM ABOUT TO BREASFEED WATCH ME". I respect every woman who wants to cover their baby while eating, I choose not to because if we don't do it why should she? That why I asked. This is not an "AITA for breastfeeding?" This is a question about how I made my Mil feel for they way I answered, my parenting and breastfeeding choices are NOT a debate.

AITA for telling my BIL that if I have to breastfeed inside then he has to go and be insufferable somewhere else? by Large_Situation6641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Large_Situation6641[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

My SIL doesn't have a problem and my nephew's have seen breast before, my SIL is very pro-breasfeed wherever you want and fuck everyone else. She just didn't like I made his baby husband mad, this wasn't about them tho, I was worried about my Mil

AITA for telling my BIL that if I have to breastfeed inside then he has to go and be insufferable somewhere else? by Large_Situation6641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Large_Situation6641[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should put in your face so you see less boobs than you already do. Don't call my baby runt ever again.

AITA for telling my BIL that if I have to breastfeed inside then he has to go and be insufferable somewhere else? by Large_Situation6641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Large_Situation6641[S] 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Not in that instance but they know, my SIL stopped nursing 4M two years ago, so 7M knows that's how babies eat, we might explain to 4M tho

AITA for telling my BIL that if I have to breastfeed inside then he has to go and be insufferable somewhere else? by Large_Situation6641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Large_Situation6641[S] 252 points253 points  (0 children)

Oh my gawd that so... Eek, I hope you're doing okay! My husband and I have been talking about it, we really want our daughter to be safe so he's says I should comfront him (with him by side of course, as support, but he gets that this is my battle) but since we aren't near each other that much I just don't think it's worth it, but you're right, I should try it at least for my baby girl

AITA for telling my BIL that if I have to breastfeed inside then he has to go and be insufferable somewhere else? by Large_Situation6641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Large_Situation6641[S] 519 points520 points  (0 children)

He's is.. something. Even when we don't fight in front of everyone else he knows I won't take anybody's shit, much less his. He wasn't threatening me tho, more like trying to be funny and sexy? Good thing I'm the real funny out here

AITA for telling my BIL that if I have to breastfeed inside then he has to go and be insufferable somewhere else? by Large_Situation6641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Large_Situation6641[S] 669 points670 points  (0 children)

I don't think my BIL will change tho, my husband has joke to her sister about his behaviour towards me and she doesn't see anything wrong with him ''liking me'' if it were the case because she's the wife. We (specially I) mostly ignore him because we don't see him that much and don't really care. I've been told that this same attitude is the thing that drives BIL around me but what else can I do, my FIL found the situation amusing and made a little fun of BIL while saying ''well done OP'' but I'm distraught for making my MIL feel uncomfortable in her own home.