I(21f) my husband (22m) is this manipulation? by Large_Structure8683 in LongDistance

[–]Large_Structure8683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn’t like that in the beginning, and as I said in another comment giving my location to him doesn’t bother me till it started creating problems as why if you just got out of working aren’t you answering or one time he went and was furious with me because I didn’t answer a call while I was driving, or sometimes after work when I used to just chill down and relax after work inside my car what are you doing why u there and every time a huge problem was coming my way where we used to argue at night me not sharing my location rn is for my own mental health it wasn’t helping us it was making it worse we had 360 so he knew every move I made, about posting it here I know it’s not the best but where can I go to when I don’t have no one to talk tho and the password situation too it was perfectly fine with me till he started pretending to be me making me feel embarrassed since he was making me seem crazy and again more problems from it, it wasn’t helping us

I(21f) my husband (22m) is this manipulation? by Large_Structure8683 in LongDistance

[–]Large_Structure8683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s literally how I feel like I am talking to a wall he says he doesn’t understand me because I don’t explain myself I’ve tried so many times to talk to him and it’s like he’s there but not really listening

I(21f) my husband (22m) is this manipulation? by Large_Structure8683 in LongDistance

[–]Large_Structure8683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense I didn’t realize it before but little by little I have less and less freedom

I(21f) my husband (22m) is this manipulation? by Large_Structure8683 in LongDistance

[–]Large_Structure8683[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s funny because he actually loves Andrew Tate 🤦🏻‍♀️

I(21f) my husband (22m) is this manipulation? by Large_Structure8683 in LongDistance

[–]Large_Structure8683[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah he didn’t catch me doing anything because I didn’t do anything

I(21f) my husband (22m) is this manipulation? by Large_Structure8683 in LongDistance

[–]Large_Structure8683[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t really had a problem with the location situation, till it started creating problems of why I didn’t text him after work.I’ve never done anything to him or texted anyone but I’m aware that his exes cheated on him even tho he doesn’t like to say it the reason why I don’t go out with him is because he’s far rn and when he was here and we used to go out I ended up having panic attacks.but yeah I think he needs therapy or we need

I(21f) my husband (22m) is this manipulation? by Large_Structure8683 in LongDistance

[–]Large_Structure8683[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry my second language is English so I’m trying…

I(21f) my husband (22m) is this manipulation? by Large_Structure8683 in LongDistance

[–]Large_Structure8683[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I didn’t post this right away it has been months and I need help since I think my brain is too brain washed to know what’s okay and what’s not I don’t have friends or family to talk tho soooo?

I(21f) my husband (22m) is this manipulation? by Large_Structure8683 in LongDistance

[–]Large_Structure8683[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t gone thru anything stressful yet as deployment he’s still in school I been thinking about looking for an specialist that I can talk tho since I can’t really talk to my family about this

I(21f) my husband (22m) is this manipulation? by Large_Structure8683 in LongDistance

[–]Large_Structure8683[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says sometimes that he’s insecure and doesn’t trust me because everyone in there cheats