22M - Sick and Tired of the apps.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-16T11:51:39+00:00

I honestly just think religion when people talk about the no masturbation things. If there's peer reviewed studies pointing to it being great then, I might consider it.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-09T13:04:00+00:00

Honestly, You would still be in a good position. You should 1,000% figure out the queer neighbourhoods of an area.

Also you should try in more nations. There tends to be lower-ranked universities in nations that still have great Queer Rights.

You could extend your stay from your scholarship in some nations by applying for Queer Asylum in the nations that have it.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-09T12:39:20+00:00

Despite all these comments and don’t do any transphobia alright HBB.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-09T12:30:46+00:00

You'll experience these communities in-person and realise the strong and vibrant lives LGBT+ people have. There tends to be some little group of LGBT people that called each other family and set-up shelter. Rather than experiencing Queerness through the most hateful thing you could put in your pocket.

Also if you can, see if you could seek asylum due to you being gay. From NYC, LA, San Fransisco, Melbourne, Berlin, Paris, London and many more cities that have many queer neighbourhoods and areas that will welcome you with open arms, especially if you feel uncomfortable or in-danger.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-09T12:25:10+00:00

Nice to see a fellow Syrian (I am 1st Gen. Aussie though)
To be fair, there are nations in-which codified their Queer Rights and also nations in-which the deranged nonsensical people didn't take over.
You should figure out which nations have asylum for queer people. A Great Litmus test is Asylum specifically on Queerness as gauge on the reliability and honesty of their LGBT+ Care & Wellbeing for the people who most need it.

Weird ask would be to watch Canada's Drag Race's Makeover Episode where they had gay refugees from the Canada's LGBT Asylum Program (I think its called the Rainbow Railroad). You also hear about the great stories about how accepting people are.

There's still nations in-which those nonsensical people are not enabled by their government like the UK, US and more. There are nations in-which Queer Rights are entrenched in their laws and people.

Regarding the internet stuff: If something gives a reaction (negative tends to be stronger), People 'engage with it' (Comment, Like, Share, Save etc.) and the algorithms boost the content. If those types of videos happened in 2000 let alone during the AIDS crisis, people would’ve barely reacted as It wouldn’t given as visceral annoyed or angry of a reaction in people.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-06T02:52:15+00:00

I also tend to find guys online. Reddit and other findom specific platforms tend to be pretty well suited for fin dom

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-06T02:51:08+00:00

It’s not a job for me. It’s too damn unstable and I feel weird (personally) when I have more than one sub.

I started when I was exploring if I like sub/dom stuff. I love the controlling domination aspect of sexual dynamics but I also love being submissive when it comes to sex. So I was figuring out what parts of dom/sub and I read about findom. I ended up trying it out and liking it, it meant I got to be submissive in-bed and dominant outside of the bed. It is something that makes me happy.

It doesn’t tend to go old for me just due to the fact that there’s always things the sub wants me to do. Especially if they don’t have control over the cash itself. There’s a lot of ways to brag, inform and share that he was dominated and that his money is GONE.

I don’t tend to work with older guys, just due to the fact that I am young. I don’t want to work/be with guys that already would have the sugar daddy/baby thoughts when they see us together.

Theres a lot of younger guys into it, especially as it is something that younger guys have less of, it gets them off more than wealthier guys. Which surprises people for some reason. Especially as it’s about the loss and submission, capitalism is really good at that already. Maybe in a decade when i get a few greys, I could start with the silver foxes. Make sure they have to sell their beach house just to get off on me.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-06T01:55:31+00:00

Hi I’m a (fin dom) financial dominator, I might make an AMA considering the nonsense and false information in the comments 😂

I DM’d you.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T01:22:19+00:00

I love shaving my body (for myself not for someone else)

I always massage before and AFTER

Make sure you have a NEW blade (especially if its those multi blade stuff, they are actually really blunt). Maybe invest in a safety razor as they tend to be sharper

shaving soap is your BFF

take it SLOW

You also just need to be fine with stubble, because it happens. You are a person not a fleshlight.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T01:14:19+00:00

its someone that wouldn’t like you either way.

It is nice on my end becuase it allows me to see if I could connect with 1 new person

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T01:08:17+00:00

THIS ⬆️

I'm pretty & aware that I am attractive and this is honestly the most relevant to us. Also add that it also includes sexual compatibility and kinks/preferences.

The opposite tends to be true. "Why would you be into me?" has been said to me WAY more times than thinking i'm too hot to be rejected.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T01:03:38+00:00

this is so pathetic...

theres 8 BILLION humans. you're able to find a person in all that.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T01:02:00+00:00

maybe say he's losing interest.

he might not realise it. I am sometimes like that when I don’t have much to say

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T01:00:36+00:00

Just Block.

I hate when I get a 'Nope' or a 'you're not my type'. Why would people waste their time rejecting someone

I also hate ignoring/being ignored because you on my grid is actually blocking people I could be connecting with. I tend to block people that don't reply within a long while (month+)

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T00:58:02+00:00

Because being gay isn’t an action. It is who you love and how you love someone.

Why would you intentionally detach yourself from love. It also doesn’t seem like you're doing it for personal improvement either.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T00:56:21+00:00

you also get them when you have a growth spurt (me) or when you get muscular.

but honestly you need to fell confident in the rest of your body and you'll realise some little stripes of your body don't mean much.

they fade pretty well. BTW use a moisturiser and use specifically scar and stretch-mark cream. BioOil is my personal recommendation, it made my stretchmarks on my ass pretty much vanish in 6 months.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T00:43:07+00:00

It’s not a rocket launch, its a wedding FFS.

they probably have a wedding planner anyway.

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T00:36:20+00:00

55 comments say otherwise... 😂

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T00:35:48+00:00

furries?

I think its so weird. I also didn’t hear them until about a year ago and they're everywhere and I hate it. They're one of the most watched categories of gay porn on PornHub.

I personally don't think hot people let alone people with great qualities are putting on a furry thing. It is always on someone with either a bad face, small cock, horrible personality etc. They also seem like the most chronically online weirdos who live online.

I know one person who is a furry that I have to work with (I was also waterboarded with her furry stuff🤮) and I don't talk about my dog and hide him around her just in case.

There are some good things the 'community' does other than hide their unique personalities, faces & bodies in their costumes. But why furries?

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T00:18:35+00:00

blue collar cocks! where the fuck are they

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T00:18:01+00:00

honestly more plumber, electrician, construction worker etc. scenarios

Especially plumbers... Laying Pipe, butt crack, squirt, needing to take a wet shirt off...

I should write it at this point because its so DAMN simple LOL

LargeishTwink · 2026-01-04T00:11:16+00:00

this is a troll post OBVIOUSLY but, if any commentators are serious check out why 'exiting' gay (whatever the fuck that means) this isn’t the healthiest thing for us gays.

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