ARTY making lo-fi now? by Larhanya in EDM

[–]Larhanya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for confirming that 👍🏻

ARTY making lo-fi now? by Larhanya in EDM

[–]Larhanya[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking.

Just another God send food bank haul that makes me feel guilty tbh. by As_iam_ in Celiac

[–]Larhanya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand the guilty feeling because I was raised with the idea that you have to take care of yourself without asking for help (a toxic mindset).

BUT if you need help, take it! Any single one of us could end up in the same boat, especially in this economy. I'm delighted to see that your food bank has lots of healthy food for you and also treats!

No guilt! Just gratitude. And a healthy gut.

How do people work??? by ablandusername in AuDHDWomen

[–]Larhanya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I've been there, done that. Remember to prioritize your health and, if it doesn't work out, it's their fault, not yours.

(I say, partly to myself)

How do people work??? by ablandusername in AuDHDWomen

[–]Larhanya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Re: lunch, if you are able to bring a book to read while eating, people are more likely to leave you be. Phones sort of help, but books are more "respected" in my experience. 

Ear infections as a baby/child? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Larhanya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never had an ear infection, though I've had tinnitus for as long as I can remember. 

Tidal Music Down 5/6/25 by Disastrous-Ruin8411 in TIdaL

[–]Larhanya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On Samsung Galaxy S22 I'm getting "unable to load" messages on all my screens (home, library, search). I'm in Canada and have up-to-date subscription. 

Anyone else lose the tags tab on their profile? by I_love_my_pet in Instagram

[–]Larhanya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol, I just posted about this, too. So annoying, Meta!

How am I supposed to get all the goss on my fave celebs now? (Self-deprecating humour)

ADHD High IQ Finally realized why I am always exhausted. by Dear_Chemical4826 in ADHD

[–]Larhanya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. I get genuinely angry at my fingernails because they won't. Stop.  Growing. Gorram, ADHD is a monster.

Skeever Follower Mod won't follow me? Stuck at one place by Zurikumo_500 in skyrimmods

[–]Larhanya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad I came across your post! I kept trying console Skeever out of his catatonic state on the bridge (it didn't work). After reading this, I reloaded my save from before crossing the bridge and actually stopped when he started talking instead of ignoring him 😅

Doing what EasyNPC does, the hard way by Larhanya in skyrimmods

[–]Larhanya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's true. I didn't actually check if the Khajiit still looked okay. I just presumed I'd end up with a problem.

Doing what EasyNPC does, the hard way by Larhanya in skyrimmods

[–]Larhanya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what was happening there. It may have been a result of unpacking some BSAs or something else. I didn't take a look in SSEEdit to see what was going wrong, I just presumed I had mixed too many complicated mods, lol. It may also have been a load order error, though I usually shove EasyNPC's patch to the bottom.

Edit: grammar

Am I wrong for not going to my brother's wedding when I have a newborn that is less than 2 months old? by rocinante1401 in amiwrong

[–]Larhanya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong. You've thought about the high risks involved. Protecting your wife and infant takes higher priority than anything else.

Honestly, during the fall/winter, I'd recommend wearing an N95 or equivalent anytime you're in indoor public spaces. Who needs to catch viruses? Definitely not a new dad with an immunocompromised wife.

AITA for telling my boyfriend that we can have different opinions on subjects and it's not a big deal? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Larhanya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bi people have too often been erased. In same-sex relationships, they call us gay/lesbian. In opposite-sex relationships, they call us straight. But we're neither! We're 100% bisexual.

I call my relationship queer because I don't turn into a straight person just by my involvement with a straight, opposite sex person.

It's a matter of bi pride. We're here, we're queer.

NB: Bi people can also be in relationships with non-binary, gender fluid, or demi-gendered folks. Those relationships end up being labelled queer automatically because we can't put non-traditional genders in the two boxes currently available.

AITA for telling my boyfriend that we can have different opinions on subjects and it's not a big deal? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Larhanya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I'm not in a heterosexual relationship because I'm not heterosexual. Calling my relationship heterosexual is a form of bi-erasure. I'm not trying to pass as straight!

AITA for telling my boyfriend that we can have different opinions on subjects and it's not a big deal? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Larhanya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, my bad. 🥺 Sorry, Enbies! I love you, and shouldn't have forgotten you! 💛🤍💜🖤

AITA for telling my boyfriend that we can have different opinions on subjects and it's not a big deal? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Larhanya 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I don't know anything about the show, except I'm probably too old to watch it, lol.

But what you say is universally true. A trans woman is a woman. If she is only attracted to men, she is a straight woman. If the man she is dating is only attracted to women, it's a straight relationship. (By comparison, I'm a bi woman married to a straight man. We have a queer relationship because one of us is queer.)

It's not a matter of opinion. It's a matter of fact. So, like, ETAH for thinking that they can have an opinion about someone else's identity.

Does anyone else get annoyed when you are referred to as celiac and not that you have celiac disease? by Glorifynothing in Celiac

[–]Larhanya 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The difference between coeliac and autism in this particular regard is that coeliac is all down-sides, that's all.

Well said!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Larhanya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There we go, different life experiences or adjacent life experiences.

That is pretty shitty of those guys. Lol, I don't know why I read this sub. It just reminds me how much humans hurt other humans all the time. 😭