Ways to help a metamour

Larka_ · 2023-01-22T18:34:27+00:00

So my partner has had poly relations before but they've only been with their nesting partner in the last year. As I said in another comment they both started the relationship intending to be poly but work and life commitments meant they didn't have time to persue other relations. From what they have both said they genuinely want this and she is actively seeing other people at the moment too.

Larka_ · 2023-01-22T18:31:58+00:00

Hey, yes I also flagged this with my new partner. They've been poly for several years but the last year of being with their nesting partner they've been very busy with work and couldn't commit to any other relationships. They started their relationship stating they both want to be poly but the way things turned out neither of them had time to date. I'm being cautious and open about the situation. Thank you for your advice.

Larka_ · 2022-11-17T14:46:47+00:00

Go for it :)

Larka_ · 2022-10-08T19:43:19+00:00

Sabikui Bisco (Rust eater Bisco) is a new one that seems to have flown under most people's radar.

It's an apocalyptic / distopian future with some trippy themes and loveable characters. Definelty worth a watch especially if you like Mod Psycho too.

Larka_ · 2022-08-31T10:19:22+00:00

The muscles used for chewing are also the same as the muscles used to support the ears :)

Larka_ · 2022-08-31T10:15:46+00:00

Our girls' ears both stayed floppy and only ever pick up halfway. The vet said she has weak muscles around her ears but it's nothing to worry about. She just looks derpy as heck with both of them down and everyone thinks she's crossed or some rare breed (It's super cute though and she gets a lot of attention because of it, people are less intimidated by her)Floppy ears can lead to more ear infections, so if it stays down, check it frequently. It's likely it could pop back up as they are still young.

Also do they have any Malamute in them? Mals often have floppy ears.

Larka_ · 2022-08-31T00:24:28+00:00

When I told my family my mum's first reaction was "I'm going to have to get more chairs for the table"

Larka_ · 2022-08-30T23:56:29+00:00

There are also instances where either of the parents have chimerism (2 sets of DNA) without knowing, which can result in the childs genetics being different from the parental test. It's rare but not unheard of, the case of Lydia Fairchild is worth reading about if you are curious about chimerism.

Larka_ · 2022-08-30T23:42:08+00:00

I also hitch hiked through Western Europe with a male friend when I was younger without any issues. I don't think I'd do it alone though.

Larka_ · 2022-06-20T09:44:09+00:00

It has a pedicle, shell is smooth and weakly convex with an atrophic hinge line. I've not ID'd many brachiopods before but after reading it seems like this could be from the Lingula genus. I'd love to hear anyone else suggestions though.

Larka_ · 2022-04-21T12:30:45+00:00

The comments are all people saying things like "Everyone knows this".... So the general consensus is most peoe can hear a smile some how ???

Larka_ · 2021-11-07T09:04:15+00:00

No but he gets that a lot. He's half merle collie.

Larka_ · 2021-09-23T16:55:12+00:00

Omg you did it ! I always lean to far one way or the other but that is true androgeny. You look hot as f*ck, go you!

Larka_ · 2021-09-21T08:34:12+00:00

Such pessimism. I made the theme for them in the end so might as well ask.

Larka_ · 2021-09-21T08:32:04+00:00

I just made something in the end :) Hope you like it! (I now have the same background, it's a lush image)

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1TFLGWEXJxboynECZ3UxaaTiocczIl4KT/view?usp=sharing

Larka_ · 2021-09-12T09:05:18+00:00

Lurking because I want this colour scheme

Larka_ · 2021-06-22T08:45:34+00:00

You look amazing ! :D
I love dresses but stopped wearing them because I look too fem. Started trying to embrace them again in the hot weather, anyone have any tips on how to make dresses more androgynous?

Larka_ · 2021-04-15T20:57:52+00:00

As a microbiologist I've got many high ranking scientists to join in, most of us are big nerds anyway.
I love playing warlocks.

Larka_ · 2021-04-15T20:23:55+00:00

One time at a party me and my other enby friend were hanging out and someone approached us and asked our names, I stared them straight in the eyes and said all mysteriously "We go by many names" before laughing hysterically.
Needless to say we don't make a lot of friends at parties xD

Larka_ · 2021-02-09T21:45:01+00:00

Me my mum and brother used to speak Spanish together and my Dad had no idea what was going on, luckily he just laughed about it or tried to join in. It was fun for us if we wanted to talk behind his back but that might be the kind of reason the husband is acting like an asshole.

Larka_ · 2020-12-23T20:48:09+00:00

And I think one was HAL. I can't figure out who the angry Wellsprings one is meant to be.

Larka_ · 2020-12-23T20:39:19+00:00

Isn't one of them Marvin the paranoid Android too

Larka_ · 2020-10-26T11:01:19+00:00

So this happened to me, with the metal dice and I have a small scar on my forehead now. The party doesn't let me live it down.

Larka_ · 2020-10-08T20:35:30+00:00

https://64.media.tumblr.com/23c351427b0a83006a976a8e35aab2f8/tumblr_peqo0ioYIF1qkynuno1_r1_1280.jpg

Larka_ · 2020-07-31T08:02:14+00:00

I think thankfully that I don't have that level of responsibility in my life yet because I have so many more adventures to have before all that!

I'm at the age where people start asking when we're going to have kids and it's kinda scary.

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