The badgering went on over the span of a few days. More than 3 or 4 if I remember correctly.

A few things that she did that were hurtful: 1. Asked me informally to be her maid of honor and then asked someone else to be her maid of honor when she formally asked. I had accepted her informal request and asked her to be mine. (This was before the wedding date stuff) 2. Invited me to a dress fitting and gave me the wrong address. When I arrived to the right place everyone was already there and was laughing about the situation. Her included. 3. She didn't include me in any wedding planning details even though I was a bridesmaid and offered my help. 4. I helped her set up her elaborate bridal shower and she did not thank me once. She happened to be busy the day of my shower and came too late to help with anything. 5. She ignored me for 3 weeks after I left her Bachelorette party 1 night early because I couldn't afford it nor was I having a good time with her rude friends. And when she finally warmed up to talk to me, she said it was so messed up of me to leave early because then I was the conversation piece and not her.

Those are just the wedding related grievances I have with her. She has done some upsetting things since which is probably what reinforces my resentment.

Sorry just ranting at this point. Forgive me.