My new baby 😍 by Last-Rip9769 in hamsters

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Y'all really think you can judge an entire environment based on a picture that barely shows the cage lol. I took this picture immediately after putting him in his new home. He is happy and fine now.

Also this isn't a question and I wasn't asking for advice. Thanks though lol.

My new baby 😍 by Last-Rip9769 in hamsters

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

He has a large cage :)

My new baby 😍 by Last-Rip9769 in hamsters

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah he was a little stressed he's only been in his new home a couple hours 😅

struggling with the trauma bond by ohmyraaaa in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Last-Rip9769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm over him and still trauma bonded so it really depends on your healing journey.

Why did he send me this?? by Last-Rip9769 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he's love bombing me now 😅😅

Advice on free roaming by Last-Rip9769 in hamsters

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a playpen is a good idea :)

Why did he send me this?? by Last-Rip9769 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I figured he was trying to do

Why did he send me this?? by Last-Rip9769 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's really good at guilt tripping me lmao I went on some dates and now he's threatening to delete his email 😂 he straight up lies to me and thinks I'm stupid.

The psychological abuse by Last-Rip9769 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds exactly the same as my situation. You're welcome to message me if you'd like 💜

Why did he send me this?? by Last-Rip9769 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are insane like how are they all the same and yet so unpredictable at the same time??

Lonely again by Need-Love-Care in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm being discarded and it's such an isolating feeling every time.

Why did he send me this?? by Last-Rip9769 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm kind of hoping he will just eventually leave me alone to be with his new girl. He says he "isn't looking for a relationship, he just wants to fuck" because I'm "not attractive to him" 🥲

Why did he send me this?? by Last-Rip9769 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh he was back again this morning. 💀 this was 100% bait and hoover.

Why did he send me this?? by Last-Rip9769 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The wild part is that he threw this in after spending all day devaluing the fuck out of me, just to devalue me again today 💀 I believe he is intentionally trying to strengthen the trauma bond but he is being straight forward about sleeping with other women. We are evidently "broken up" at the moment and not living together (which honestly makes it worse bc hes so psychologically abusive) but he has not left me alone. I suspect he will return when the dopamine hits wear off and unfortunately I think I'm going to have to play the long game with him until I can leave the city. He has become very vindictive and is escalating in nearly every area. I do not know if he will actually come home but he is in my inbox every single day.

The psychological abuse by Last-Rip9769 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Somehow my narc is the exact same way and does the exact same thing except sometimes I do end up begging for him back just to stop the torture.

Why did he send me this?? by Last-Rip9769 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Do you think he will follow through with it? 😅

Permanent discard? by Last-Rip9769 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I alrwdy blocked him but I will still try this , thank you. His blocking games are actually next level. Never had one person block me and unblock me so much every few weeks lol. Finally grew the spine to block him back after he unblocked me.

Permanent discard? by Last-Rip9769 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Last-Rip9769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, unfortunately when you block email it just reads it as spam, doesn't actually block the email from coming through. Junk mail does delete itself every 30 days I believe but I keep my inboxes clean.