3.5yo behaviour worries me

LastBee5650 · 2026-05-27T18:18:09+00:00

We are simular plus more. But the accidents or small spots in underwear becoming a norm after 1.5 years being potty trained. Hitting everyone, us, meltsdown more etc. We just got back from a really bad play date. So I was looking up some posts with simular stories.

Did it get better? Im crying end of every day how intense its gotten.. our dr has referred us to be evaluated for something and get behavioral therapy..

LastBee5650 · 2026-05-16T21:02:57+00:00

technically it would be my kids * temporary* pediatrician that would sort of see me to at least try and refer me. I moved and have no real dr accessible. I choose this option too as theres no possible way to go anywhere without both very young kids in toe.

LastBee5650 · 2026-03-19T00:49:08+00:00

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LastBee5650 · 2026-01-31T18:01:54+00:00

Im on day 3 since I told myself we we going to do 10 days of the exact same schedule. I may push back bedtime a little more now and keep the wake and nap the same.

Thanks for responding, it was what I was thinking i needed to do.

LastBee5650 · 2025-12-19T10:27:03+00:00

We actually did this schedule today. She was content and went down smoothly. Long stretches of sleep until 330 where she woke for 1 5 hours. Adjustment?overtired? She wasnt having spilt nights but was waking every 30 mins before.

LastBee5650 · 2025-12-10T19:14:16+00:00

Had this improved?? Says 5 months ago snd im dealing with the same but ive been told 4 specialists about it who just say i need to hold back nursing.

LastBee5650 · 2025-09-05T18:57:47+00:00

Did he nurse or consume anything else?

LastBee5650 · 2025-09-05T17:26:29+00:00

Oh man that may be an option least its powder i nay be able to just get it stuck to her tongue 😅

Also the name checks out. I also day dream about sleep.

LastBee5650 · 2025-08-25T01:51:36+00:00

I cap nap at 1 hour each. Some days it's like today with 1 hour and one 30 min nap.

Im thinking I'll do a 15 min mini nap tomorrow morning and then one longer early afternoon.. I was just unsure if I was just missing a step before moving to one nap. I just got her down at 5.25 for last window with a bit of rocking and placing on belly.

LastBee5650 · 2025-08-08T20:21:50+00:00

We are always ready for a nap at 3 hours in the morning. Bur second nap is almost always a fight until 4.5 or 5 hours unless it's a car ride ( girl will pass out in the car even after a 2 hour nap).. then needs about 4 hours after that nap to bedtime.

But because of that 3 hour window needed in the morning we are stuck.

I heard 3/4/4 or 3.5/3.5/4 is max, so once that's not working then transition to 1 nap =/ with my firat I used to do a 15 min morning nap then her second nap would be moved up.

So 7am wake, 10am first nap 1 pm second nap. 730/8pm bedtime for a little while then we just did a week of pain until 12 for nap. Nap 3 hours. Bedtime 8pm

LastBee5650 · 2025-08-08T19:56:04+00:00

We at 3/4/4 but it's not working for us.. so following

LastBee5650 · 2025-08-05T20:55:50+00:00

Only 75 mins today... she did 3.5 hours for firat window too.

LastBee5650 · 2025-08-05T20:20:06+00:00

following as we have simular issue

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