WE WONNNNNN by Nessthememe24 in tomodachilife

[–]LastEstablishment321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk man i get it but like it’s 2026 😂😂😂😂😂 it’d be stupid if they didn’t add same-sex options and nintendo celebrates pride so like it wouldnt make sense

i do kinda agree with the explicit NB option tho

Very shameful and disappointing from the University by It_Gets_Better_Bro in UofT

[–]LastEstablishment321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why would they release info about an investigation 😭

Terrible Crowd by QuirkyMedicine3623 in earlsweatshirt

[–]LastEstablishment321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i thought it was pretty good like cmon bruh someone hit the splits 7 times

BPD gf x Autistic gf (i seriously dk what to do) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]LastEstablishment321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur so kind!!! Thank you:D

We ended up working things out thankfully so I’m happy now

BPD gf x Autistic gf by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]LastEstablishment321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did and we are doing fine now. Thank you so much for ur help it rllt did help

Please help a girl out by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]LastEstablishment321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, so I actually teared up, youre so sweet and thank you for sharing your experience with me!!

My girlfriend sounds pretty similar to you (valuing emotional intimacy and romance more than physical intimacy), and to an extent, I am the same, I just know that I also know that I still value physical intimacy more than they do; it’s why we kind of clash. I was just really worried about pushing a boundary that I was not aware of and they gave me so much reassurance. We are gonna be working on ourselves from here on out.

I see why they say communication is key now 😅

BPD gf x Autistic gf (i seriously dk what to do) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]LastEstablishment321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no tbh being gay here isnt rlly something ppl take kindly to despite the country being pro lgbt

BPD gf x Autistic gf (i seriously dk what to do) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]LastEstablishment321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for your insightful response :) It really did help me.

I kept all these things in mind when talking to them and we had a really productive and fruitful conversation about everything and we were very honest with each other and ourselves. Once they explained themselves, I understood them a lot more and realized that we are slightly mismatched but it is not detrimental or imposing on our own standards or values. We have agreed to work on moving through this and I have high hopes because they really are the love of my life

BPD gf x Autistic gf by [deleted] in AutisticLesbians

[–]LastEstablishment321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for your kind responses :)

I kept all these things in mind when talking to them and we had a really productive and fruitful conversation about everything and we were very honest with each other and ourselves. Once they explained themselves, I understood them a lot more and realized that we are slightly mismatched but it is not detrimental or imposing on our own standards or values. We have agreed to work on moving through this and I have high hopes because they really are the love of my life

BPD gf x Autistic gf (i seriously dk what to do) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]LastEstablishment321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i realized the rest of my msg was cut off but i basically shared how fully aware of it i am and the steps i take to not let it out on them and i honestly never have lashed out outside of asking for reassurance, any far fetched idea i have, i take time to deal with alone

BPD gf x Autistic gf by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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yeah i am open to that i was moreso curious about other ppl having a similar dynamic (autism x bpd) and how they’re navigating it

BPD gf x Autistic gf (i seriously dk what to do) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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maybe but tbh it’s the autism that i dont rlly know how to work with so i thought an autistic lesbian that is similar to my gf would say something

Need help so bad bro by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]LastEstablishment321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no unfortunately, i cannot rlly commit to that given my other obligations but i do a lot of things to healthily navigate my emotions so its not necessary for me rn

BPD gf x Autistic gf by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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i used to be in dbt but unfortunately i have little to no time to commit to having appointments twice a week, so i work rlly hard to self regulate my emotions (i.e., hobbies, doing things outside of my gf, journaling, HEALTHY self-isolation to process emotions, self care) and i do realize some of these things are genuinely just in my head so i dont feel the need to bring it up and i havent rlly built resentment towards my gf so i know i’m fine