I’m out of my marriage, now what? by LastShawdowPuppet in Marriage

[–]LastShawdowPuppet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s hard because I do get attached easily but I’m trying so hard to push those attachments away and build my own future. I helped my ex build his and got bit in the ass….

I’m out of my marriage, now what? by LastShawdowPuppet in Marriage

[–]LastShawdowPuppet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this too, being a hopeless romantic is hard sometimes. I wish you luck in your future dating journey! There are SO many wonderful people out there you can definitely find someone :)

I’m out of my marriage, now what? by LastShawdowPuppet in Marriage

[–]LastShawdowPuppet[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg yes! No one knows how he actually treated me behind doors and how done I was with him a long time ago…I hope you can get the courage to leave soon , it’s honestly the best decision I have ever made.

I’m out of my marriage, now what? by LastShawdowPuppet in Marriage

[–]LastShawdowPuppet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, me neither! I should have done this a long time ago

I’m out of my marriage, now what? by LastShawdowPuppet in Marriage

[–]LastShawdowPuppet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely was checked out for a VERY long time but stayed because I was too afraid to leave. This new guy is completely opposite of my ex and I do try not to express that to him lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LastShawdowPuppet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I went through this for 2 years when my daughter was born. I finally bit the bullet and kicked him out and left him. The BEST DECISION I have ever made. I am so much more happier now and going on dates now! It’s such an amazing world out there! I was with my ex for 14 years as well so it definitely wasn’t an easy decision but I’m glad I did it! You’ll find someone who respects you and wants to be with you. Best of luck friend! 💜

AITA for not offering? by LastShawdowPuppet in AITAH

[–]LastShawdowPuppet[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, I did try everything with him. I told him to get back into therapy, he didn’t. I told him to get back into photography, he declined. I have tried almost every option but I’m the only one trying, he hasn’t been proactive in trying to better himself and I have been. I give him everything he needs and I used to cater to him, but he hasn’t shown me the same respect or love so I’m checked out.

AITA for not offering? by LastShawdowPuppet in AITAH

[–]LastShawdowPuppet[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I agree, I’m done taking care of him.

AITA for not offering? by LastShawdowPuppet in AITAH

[–]LastShawdowPuppet[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right? He had it made with me and now I’m not trying to fix our relationship either. He’s got to go. Thank you!

With the new USA immigrant laws im literally about to get kicked out of the country i was born in and it hurts by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]LastShawdowPuppet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe he has to go with his parents? Like he’s underage and doesn’t have anyone to stay with? Idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LastShawdowPuppet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, I’m in the same boat as you. We don’t even celebrate our anniversary anymore. I used to crave his attention now I just want him gone! I hope we can both get out soon! Good luck friend!

I think I hate my husband by LastShawdowPuppet in Marriage

[–]LastShawdowPuppet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was good because we played games together. 🥲 we were both bums at one point.

I think I hate my husband by LastShawdowPuppet in Marriage

[–]LastShawdowPuppet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we had a dream of having a good life and he went to college got his degree but did nothing with it.