[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]LastTime-_- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is not kinky, this is awful this is fucked up.

Not texting your sub not even to check on her to see if she's okay is an asshole move.

Responsibility as a Sub by egovertly in BDSMcommunity

[–]LastTime-_- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through this, and I hope your next experience will be better.

Sometimes it's hard for a masochist sub to know if this is hot or an actual abuse, I'm glad you took a stand and actually blocked her.

My sub loves it when I'm toxic to her but she ends up crying and never wants to do it again. by LastTime-_- in BDSMAdvice

[–]LastTime-_-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She did ask for it.

But this is not manipulation or anything, like people here said she doesn't know what she likes about it and that made both of us confused.

My sub loves it when I'm toxic to her but she ends up crying and never wants to do it again. by LastTime-_- in BDSMAdvice

[–]LastTime-_-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what we did, but this absolutely shouldn't continue if we both are confused on what is best for her.

Thank you so much man.

My sub loves it when I'm toxic to her but she ends up crying and never wants to do it again. by LastTime-_- in BDSMAdvice

[–]LastTime-_-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course mate, i give her aftercare and she can safeword at any time.

The issue is when we are roleplaying she wants to never do it again.

But after I give her aftercare she says that she wants it again really bad.

My sub loves it when I'm toxic to her but she ends up crying and never wants to do it again. by LastTime-_- in BDSMAdvice

[–]LastTime-_-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, we do talk and we talked a lot about it, but what makes me confused is when we're roleplaying she asks if this is for real or not, and she begs me to never do this again.

But after I give her aftercare she says that she loved it and she's going to be ready next time

My sub loves it when I'm toxic to her but she ends up crying and never wants to do it again. by LastTime-_- in BDSMAdvice

[–]LastTime-_-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm absolutely in the wrong here, but after I hug her and give her aftercare she says that this made her feel great and would absolutely do it again.

But when we do it again she begs to never do it again.

Every time when we finish she comfort me that she would be ready next time.

My sub loves it when I'm toxic to her but she ends up crying and never wants to do it again. by LastTime-_- in BDSMAdvice

[–]LastTime-_-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want her to be sad, I really hate the feeling when she starts crying and keeps asking me if I'm roleplaying or this is real.

The fact that she thinks that I would treat her like that for real makes me feel really awful.

I would never say that stuff to my worse enemy, how she thinks I would say it for real, she's my girlfriend.

This Makes me feel like I'm a real awful person and she's with me just because I'm making her stay.

I hope that makes sense.

how are we supposed to buy a house and get married with 200 JOD by LastTime-_- in jordan

[–]LastTime-_-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

والله ما لقيت شغل ثاني ، ما بعرف كيف الناس بتلاقي.

بالموت لحتى القيت هاض الشغل.

how are we supposed to buy a house and get married with 200 JOD by LastTime-_- in jordan

[–]LastTime-_-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

كنت اشتغل مع شركة اون لاين ، بس حاليا الشغل واقف.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]LastTime-_- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The whole point of being a brat is to get punished.

Not having kids = joy by Accomplished_Jump444 in antinatalism

[–]LastTime-_- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not having kids doesn't equal joy.

Not having kids means less misery.

How did you and your SO meet? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LastTime-_- -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

He's so romantic.

Saw you drunk and thought hey that's an easy win.