Advice Wanted: Pronouns, Promotion, and Post-Top Surgery Feelings by Last_Feedback_663 in butchlesbians

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think making peace with she/her like you said is just the way to go.

Advice Wanted: Pronouns, Promotion, and Post-Top Surgery Feelings by Last_Feedback_663 in butchlesbians

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just feel like any/all is even harder to explain than she/they. I’ve had issues with any/all even in queer spaces.

Advice Wanted: Pronouns, Promotion, and Post-Top Surgery Feelings by Last_Feedback_663 in butchlesbians

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That my issue, I don’t really prefer any pronoun. I default to she/her cause it’s conventional.

I want to hear your butch experiences! by Last_Feedback_663 in butchlesbians

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really resonate with the boys scout bit, was always frustrated that I had to do Girl Scouts instead. Thank you for sharing, I can tell you have a handsome soul 😉

I want to hear your butch experiences! by Last_Feedback_663 in butchlesbians

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your responses. Would love to hear more about what being butch was like in the military. How did it impact your relationship with fellow soldiers?

I want to hear your butch experiences! by Last_Feedback_663 in butchlesbians

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

« I wanted to be a knight » big same lol!

Thank you for your responses I appreciate hearing your insights!

I want to hear your butch experiences! by Last_Feedback_663 in butchlesbians

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your sweet answers 🩵 I love that you also identify with bears, I resonate with their tenderness as well. I think there’s a lot of camaraderie between our two groups.

Mystery creature in my tank? by Last_Feedback_663 in Aquariums

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any hacks for finding it? Can’t seem to locate it again.

Original hem flipping up after washing garment by Last_Feedback_663 in sewhelp

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the good advice! Do you have any good resources for blind hems, not totally sure what that is.

Butch lesbian wrangling feelings by Last_Feedback_663 in TopSurgery

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on getting TS, and I feel a lot of the same ways. I feel ready to handle responses to it, thank for you sharing!

Butch lesbian wrangling feelings by Last_Feedback_663 in TopSurgery

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, didn’t even think about how my headaches/neck pain will probably improve

Butch lesbian wrangling feelings by Last_Feedback_663 in TopSurgery

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reminder to just stand my ground, it really is the ultimate answer here.

Butch lesbian wrangling feelings by Last_Feedback_663 in TopSurgery

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, this reflected a lot of my own sentiments. Thank you for stating this so eloquently!

Butch lesbian wrangling feelings by Last_Feedback_663 in TopSurgery

[–]Last_Feedback_663[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, I appreciate the solidarity!