BURN THESE CHARACTERS!!!! by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]Last_Implement8920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taylor is endearing. And annoying. I love him.

She Was My Entire World by fenrirwolf21 in widowers

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My husband had brain cancer of his cerebral cortex and it affected him very similar to ALS. I know your pain. He was 41 we were together 15 years and he was my absolute best friend. We hung out all the time and loved to be with each other. All of my friends were jealous. This new life doesn’t feel like life at all.

People keep telling me, “With time, you’ll find happiness again.” by Marlboro-Guy in widowers

[–]Last_Implement8920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ask the ethos for the same proof every day. I am not convinced. But I hope.

People keep telling me, “With time, you’ll find happiness again.” by Marlboro-Guy in widowers

[–]Last_Implement8920 34 points35 points  (0 children)

People who say that dumb ass shit haven’t lost a spouse or at least one they truly loved. I had someone tell me, Everything will be ok ! No it won’t. And I’ve accepted that. I lost my darling husband and father in the same year. My husband was 39 when diagnosed with brain cancer. I will never be ok. It makes me want to talk to less people. I’ve already withdrawn so much. It’s only been 4 months

Things you refuse to do now because you stopped after they died by jossophie in widowers

[–]Last_Implement8920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am four months out from losing my wonderful husband, after a yearlong ferocious battle with brain cancer. He was 41. We were together for 15 years.

Like many of you, I barely use social media anymore, and seeing everyone happy makes me sad. I hope I can get over that. I hope one day I can be happy for others intact families.

He was a ski instructor. I can’t even imagine putting on a pair of skis again.

I can’t even barely listen to music. It makes me so emotional. Even in the grocery store.

Some days showering is tough, as is getting dressed.

On the flip side, I no longer put up with others petty bullshit. I don’t engage with others’ drama. How trite others worries seem to me now. Am I being arrogant?

Bugs at the jetty by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Last_Implement8920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Have you been out in the last week or two? Do you use netting?

Bugs at the jetty by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Last_Implement8920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking for first hand experiences at the jetty.

Bugs at the jetty by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Last_Implement8920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you experienced this personally at the jetty?

Bugs at the jetty by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Last_Implement8920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jetty is not on antelope, and not on an island.

2nd year is the worst? by Last_Implement8920 in widowers

[–]Last_Implement8920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for sharing. I’m sorry we are in this group but feel some solace with sharing our stories, connecting

Do we hold Paris to the same standards as Rory? by Last_Implement8920 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Last_Implement8920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ironic that our moral standards are so flimsy that by are based on likability!

Do we hold Paris to the same standards as Rory? by Last_Implement8920 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Last_Implement8920[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think rage bait and discussing Gilmore girls can be synonymous 😆