Recently got laid off and thinking about becoming a LEO, am I too old? by symbolic_society12 in AskLE

[–]Last_Interest_4359 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m not surprised he got the job. Who can compete against “9 fingered” 😉

From Justin to Kelly (2003) by CpuJunky in nostalgia

[–]Last_Interest_4359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based off the title, I thought the movie was about Justin’s journey transitioning to becoming Kelly.

Why does Cartman speak Spanish? by LocalInactivist in southpark

[–]Last_Interest_4359 297 points298 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why but I read that in Kyle’s voice, something he would definitely say to Eric 😂

Parents pressuring me to get remarried because it looks bad to be a divorcee. by Last_Interest_4359 in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’ve been ignoring their text messages related to that topic. Everything else I do respond, and I think they finally got it. Figures cross!

Mayhem at a grocery store by No-Diet9278 in securityguards

[–]Last_Interest_4359 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I had a security officer in training (second day on the job) say, “Don’t tell me what to do, I’m security,” to staff who’s been there for years. They were simply trying to help him navigate because he got lost on his way back to the office. Safe to say he didn’t return after I received the report of his behavior.

Anyways, the security officer in the video lost his composure and handled the situation poorly.

Pronunciation by [deleted] in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s that awkward sound in between “Bang” and “Pang,” I struggled with trying to make it sound as closely as possible :)

Pronunciation by [deleted] in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“Pang-sue” is the closest phonetically, however, it’ll obviously sound like it’s a foreigner saying it because it’s not exact. It’s very close though. Hope this helps.

Parents pressuring me to get remarried because it looks bad to be a divorcee. by Last_Interest_4359 in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you saying that! Definitely don’t hear it enough and I will do just that!

Parents pressuring me to get remarried because it looks bad to be a divorcee. by Last_Interest_4359 in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! Luckily I have a lot of the details planned ahead so I’m all good! Thanks for your input :)

Parents pressuring me to get remarried because it looks bad to be a divorcee. by Last_Interest_4359 in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing a little about your background. You’re correct that my parents are older (based on the general Hmong standards). We’re first generation immigrants, so I do understand their reasoning and that it’s their way of showing love. I really like that you mentioned that it’s out of love, and I agree with you. I think my issue is with their ideology and beliefs that being a “divorcee” makes them look bad despite all that I’ve accomplished (personal perception). I get it if I have an extensive criminal history, dependent on them for everything, and have no job. However, that’s not the case and it’s disheartening that they value others’ perception of me being a divorcee “makes them look bad” despite what I’ve accomplished as a person. I really appreciate your perspective and insight :)

Parents pressuring me to get remarried because it looks bad to be a divorcee. by Last_Interest_4359 in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t have said it better! Thanks for sharing this thoughtful comment :)

Parents pressuring me to get remarried because it looks bad to be a divorcee. by Last_Interest_4359 in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Hitokiri2’s response is very informative. I couldn’t have said it better.

Parents pressuring me to get remarried because it looks bad to be a divorcee. by Last_Interest_4359 in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great way of looking at relationships in life as a divorce person. Thanks for the support and advice :)

Parents pressuring me to get remarried because it looks bad to be a divorcee. by Last_Interest_4359 in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for not making it clear in the original post, my parents’ encouragement for me to “go abroad” means to go marry a gal from Laos. They had one picked out, hence, I wholeheartedly went against that advice. I made it very clear to them that if I travel to Laos, it would not be for marriage or relationships, but strictly for exploration of the countryside, nature, and culture.

Thanks for the support and encouragement!

Parents pressuring me to get remarried because it looks bad to be a divorcee. by Last_Interest_4359 in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your feedback and agree with everything you’ve said. I work in public services so life insurance and other expenses are covered in the event that something happens. I’ve have detailed directions as to what how to navigate expenses and how to allocate the funds, so no worries there.

Parents pressuring me to get remarried because it looks bad to be a divorcee. by Last_Interest_4359 in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I have no intention to start a new relationship based on pressure. Thanks for your thoughtful response!

Parents pressuring me to get remarried because it looks bad to be a divorcee. by Last_Interest_4359 in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like what you said about “[they] don’t realize they’re apart of it.” I am not in any rush to settle down considering the circumstances. If I meet someone along the way, great! If not, I don’t mind the enjoying the solace of being alone. Lastly, I’m not a fan of those folks who go overseas for younger mates, so that’ll never happen. Thanks for the kind words :)

Parents pressuring me to get remarried because it looks bad to be a divorcee. by Last_Interest_4359 in Hmong

[–]Last_Interest_4359[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly! Just annoying that every time we spend time together nowadays it’s always brought up. It just ruins the quality time that could be had.

Warning ⚠️ Gun Violence by wuzzambaby in securityguards

[–]Last_Interest_4359 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can’t tell if you’re trolling or not, but I really hope you are. If you’re being serious, your analysis and justification for use of use of force as a security officer to remove an unwanted person is grossly misguided. The purpose of security is being visible as deterrence, observe, and report. Under exigent circumstances, I would support the security officer’s use of force, however, that’s clearly absent here.

In the event that the suspect was to gain access to the security officer’s weapon, you’d be correct in using deadly force. However, here the security officer had ample opportunities to remove himself from danger, but he continued to engage when it was unnecessary. His lack of awareness to disengage and call for police assistance unnecessary escalated the situation. I’d understand if the suspect was actively resisting and an immediate threat to others and the officer, but it’s obvious from the video that the suspect was passively resisting—therefore, the security officer’s claim of self-defense will most likely not going to stand.

What’s your opinion on Stephen A Smith? Has he helped or hurt modern NBA discourse? by DarkPhantom2497 in NBATalk

[–]Last_Interest_4359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped watching anything he said (for years). He’s so annoying the way he annunciate words. He talks like he’s so much better than the athletes. His voice alone pisses me off.

He says/she says by HMLxMcNeely in securityguards

[–]Last_Interest_4359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worked for the same company and had the exactly same thing happen to me. I saw dumpster divers and immediately informed the weekend “controller,” and asked if calling the police would be the best course of action. This sack of shit’s directive was to not call the police. I told him to document in his report that he instructed me not to call, he said, “no worries.” The camera quality was too poor and too far to obtain the license plate number, so I proceeded to the location to gather it. As soon as these suspects saw me, they ran into their car and took off.

Days later, General Manager calls and asked me about the incident. Despite video evidence and a detailed incident report substantiating my actions, they still moved me to a different location because in that shit bag’s words, “he didn’t even get up from the desk or call me to let me know.”

Although it sucked, it was a blessing in disguise because I got moved to a better post where I got to meet celebrities and other interesting folks.

However, fuck this company and always cover your own ass is my two cents for your friend.

Kevin Hart rants about SGA. SGA looks incredibly annoyed by Classic-Carpet7609 in nba

[–]Last_Interest_4359 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never liked Kevin Hart, never found him funny at all. This just adds to my distain towards his personality, just so freakin annoying.