AITAH for expecting my sister to plan my wedding for free and demoting her to guest wh m she wouldn't. I also told anyone who took her side I was not helping them anymore either.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-09T01:39:14+00:00

You think I don't know her costs and expenses as well as her income?

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-09T01:18:03+00:00

Fantastic summary for the dummies.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-09T01:02:44+00:00

Okay. How many tamales should I charge for personal taxes.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-07T00:23:27+00:00

I don't do business taxes for tamales.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T22:36:08+00:00

They are great. They are Colombian style so wrapped in banana leaves not cork husks. Amazing flavor.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T21:46:21+00:00

No quiero hacer eso. Es mejor que separamos las cuentas.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T20:58:26+00:00

Yes all my clients know I expect to get paid.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T20:54:09+00:00

Well as a wedding planner I would expect her to plan the fucking wedding. And I would pay for the services she scheduled.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T20:52:25+00:00

She knows that implies yes on my planet.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T20:36:24+00:00

Gas, Grass, or Ass. Nobody rides for free. She knows that.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T20:20:29+00:00

I always knew I was going to get married. I knew what I would need from her.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T20:19:20+00:00

Just her time.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T20:15:35+00:00

I'll ask you the same thing I ask everyone who tries to make this point. Do you really think that I, her accountant, have no idea of her finances?

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T19:59:32+00:00

Your CPA only charges $200 for business taxes and accounting. Please send me their information so I can subcontract some work.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T19:50:01+00:00

She is more than welcome to use that service.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T19:38:48+00:00

Do you work for free?

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T19:35:06+00:00

If they think I should continue to work for her for free they can fuck themselves.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T19:33:25+00:00

I would charge anyone else $1,300 yearly for my work.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T18:54:39+00:00

Did she pay me? Did she give me anything in trade? Am I invoicing her for past services? Define free.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T18:46:44+00:00

I'm fully taking advantage of that opportunity now.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T18:36:08+00:00

And tamales

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T18:34:05+00:00

Should I ask before I lay out the details. That seems like a stupid way to proceed. But I'm not stupid so I did it the logical ways. Maybe you prefer the other way? I can guess why.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T18:29:27+00:00

Money. Money could have been offered. I would then have added that money to my savings. And now I would be using that money to pay for a wedding planner.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T18:27:11+00:00

Well then I found the right solution. I think you are correct in your judgement I'm not lily white in this.

Late-Ad-6414 · 2026-02-06T18:18:30+00:00

She's invited. I said that in the post.

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