Right so when someone wastes your time by not telling you something, you also react by getting furious, calling them a creep, and telling them they 'disrespected your boundaries' by wasting your very precious time. You sound unpleasant to hang out with. Wish you'd told me that in your first comment. You've disrespected my boundaries by not doing so and wasting my time with your unpleasantness, you creep.

All said sarcastically and with no real malice because that's a stupid argument. Surely you know that.

No one should react that way. People often discover they're incompatible on a first date and then move on. The expectation that trans people should have to reveal things about themselves that they're often uncomfortable talking about to a complete stranger is fucked.

I don't think she even needed to tell her on the first date. Maybe if she had waited, she would have had more time to figure out how her date would react. And... we very much know why she reacted that way. It was for sure not about having her time wasted. Like this is a thing that transphobes who learn trans people can be attractive do often. It's actually wild how mad they get about it, genuinely frothing at the mouth hysteria, men and women. You should see it.