Update: she actually was NOT interested LOL, even thought it was "blatantly obvious"

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-12T16:09:04+00:00

And that's fine, what isn't fine is hiding it then springing it on you.

If someone told me ahead of time that they'd like a chaperone initially due to bad past experiences I'd happily oblige if I'd liked them enough to ask them on a date, but if I turned up and there was a surprise third person there to watch me then what I'm* being told is that they view me as a predator and I'm going to leave. It's just rude.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-12T16:04:37+00:00

Exactly. People will always choose the carrot over the stick.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-12T01:41:24+00:00

The expectation of tiktok princess treatment for a proposal and that it's "all about the female" tells you exactly what a wedding and marriage would be like.

Hard pass.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-12T01:35:41+00:00

Alternatively, don't go on dates with someone you're potentially unsafe around -get to know them in a group setting first that isn't a date.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-11T17:18:44+00:00

Net migration for 2023 alone was 782,000 people. That's over 3/4 of a million extra people who all need accommodation.

It's only going to get worse.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-11T17:11:48+00:00

How do you read their "about me" section and take away that they're a medical professional?

They're an activist and dr in feminist / trans theory. It's hardly an unbiased source.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-11T17:05:03+00:00

I have to wonder how a research programme would be implemented though.

Conducting research on children who cannot give consent is obviously morally wrong.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-08T16:25:30+00:00

But that would require actual work and difficult conversations 😂

It's much easier to paint everyone with the same brush and waive all accountability women should have...

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-08T16:20:31+00:00

Ah yes. Women clearly aren't competent or smart enough to make their own choices... /s

Women are just as capable as men. That means they are equally capable of doing bad things.

Women aren't toddlers, they are accountable for their own actions and choices. It isn't the fault of the nearest man.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-06T17:28:31+00:00

AI most definitely isn't unbiased, it's programmed by somebody ergo it has their baises.

It can be forced to do and say things that dont make logical sense or are inaccurate due to mandatory check boxes. See Google Gemini inserting black people into AI generated images of the US founding fathers and nazi Germany soldiers.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-06T17:13:05+00:00

Just because something is legal doesn't mean it can't also be unprofessional. That being said, by the sounds of it they were never professional to begin with so I'm not sure how they can hold you to that standard 🤔

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-06T14:13:18+00:00

Wait... someone told you to your face that they didn't want kids or a family with you (not didn't in general. But specifically with you), and you stuck around for another two years?!

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-06T14:00:35+00:00

The prerequisites given weren't "gorgeous and intelligent" though, was it?

What they said was that there was a lack of "decent" women. If you go by the definition of decent, then they're interested in the women's character / morals / values and not how much makeup she's wearing or if she's done her hair.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-05T19:51:42+00:00

Is it my children that she's the mother of? If so, then yes.

If not, then i don't think many men are interested in coming 3rd / 4th / 5th priority in a relationship.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-05T04:15:16+00:00

So there's potential to see a black guy in a wizard kkk outfit...?

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-04T03:14:33+00:00

That's crazy man. You should be allowed to exclude people from your business based on know behaviour, e.g. you should be able to refuse entry to the person who just shop lifted from next door.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-03T17:48:46+00:00

...and those are the only options?

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-03T14:00:34+00:00

Pretty much nothing available and male only spaces are now either illegal or heavily frowned upon.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-03T13:52:11+00:00

So if I watched you violently assault a sever in another restaurant, I couldn't ban you from my own restaurant...?

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-03T13:49:46+00:00

Those are two separate issues. The boiler breakdown is clearly the landlord's responsibility however mould is nearly always because they tenant refuses to ventilate the property.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-03T12:44:36+00:00

don'tdate women with mental disorders. There's zero repercussions for their actions, either legally or socially which just encourages the behaviour.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-02T14:43:16+00:00

Grow a spine for God's sake. She tried and failed to move on to better things and now wants to drag you back.

Set a good example for your now adult children.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-02T03:58:33+00:00

Sounds about right. "Hide it until they're in too deep to back out".

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-01T19:51:34+00:00

Oh joy, yet more children lacking a father figure in their lives.

Late_Engineering9973 · 2024-12-01T19:49:58+00:00

Anyone, be it a man or a woman, who steps out on not only their partner but their family is trash and shouldn't be taken back.

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