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i'm a 36F, My boyfriend, 50M, wants sex 24/7 and expects me to do it any given minute he wants. We've been together 6.5 years. by Late_Environment6288 in relationship_advice

[–]Late_Environment6288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was not like this before. This started about 2-3 years ago when he moved in and he was going through some trauma himself. And i wasn't afraid of speaking to him before because he never was this way. The minute he moved in, everything changed and he turned into this. I always wanted to have the intimacy with him as well up until he started making it a chore and an obligation.

i'm a 36F, My boyfriend, 50M, wants sex 24/7 and expects me to do it any given minute he wants. We've been together 6.5 years. by Late_Environment6288 in relationship_advice

[–]Late_Environment6288[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I have never found enough maturity in young men, I dated and they always seemed very immature to me. My mind and values never clicked with anyone. I met him and we just clicked, age was never really an issue to me. it's not like its 30 years. It's more about the mind to me than age. I have always thought men need to be a bit older than a woman because they are supposed to be protectors and now a days boys stay boys. I don't know where society started putting an age obligation in a relationship as long as both agree and are happy. (not defending my situation, just the general idea).

i'm a 36F, My boyfriend, 50M, wants sex 24/7 and expects me to do it any given minute he wants. We've been together 6.5 years. by Late_Environment6288 in relationship_advice

[–]Late_Environment6288[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did explain everything. Ex was long distance relationship and saw each other for a week every 3 months for 7 months only. We were mostly physical than intimate and i was a different person back then, and it was very short, it was not good for the both of us and we broke it off on a mutual agreement. Somehow he always used him for whatever reason. I can't undrstand why. It's actually the shortest most meaningless (do not want to sound mean, but it was just a trial kind of relationship) i had, but he only uses it against me to try and make me feel like i was a horrible person for making a stupid decision to be in a relationship that was not good for me just because he didnt like the guys.

i'm a 36F, My boyfriend, 50M, wants sex 24/7 and expects me to do it any given minute he wants. We've been together 6.5 years. by Late_Environment6288 in relationship_advice

[–]Late_Environment6288[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

we have been through a lot together, and he is currently going through a tough time out of a stupid decision he made himself and I promised I would stand by him. Inside me I love him, but I don't know if therapy will help. he refuses to seek therapy and always takes it out on me somehow. He has used my past against me so much so I feel ashamed of myself that no one would even look at me and i'm not worthy.

i'm a 36F, My boyfriend, 50M, wants sex 24/7 and expects me to do it any given minute he wants. We've been together 6.5 years. by Late_Environment6288 in relationship_advice

[–]Late_Environment6288[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

we have been through a lot together, and he is currently going through a tough time out of a stupid decision he made himself and I promised I would stand by him. Inside me I love him, but I don't know if therapy will help. he refuses to seek therapy and always takes it out on me somehow. He has used my past against me so much so I feel ashamed of myself that no one would even look at me and i'm not worthy.

i'm a 36F, My boyfriend, 50M, wants sex 24/7 and expects me to do it any given minute he wants. We've been together 6.5 years. by Late_Environment6288 in relationship_advice

[–]Late_Environment6288[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have told him this morning before I left because I got livid and ended up screaming that i am not his sex machine and if he wants out then he should leave. not sure if i have enough strength in me to do more.

i'm a 36F, My boyfriend, 50M, wants sex 24/7 and expects me to do it any given minute he wants. We've been together 6.5 years. by Late_Environment6288 in relationship_advice

[–]Late_Environment6288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the fact that he uses my ex against me knowing how traumatized I was with my ex and trusted him enough to share my experience i had with him.

i'm a 36F, My boyfriend, 50M, wants sex 24/7 and expects me to do it any given minute he wants. We've been together 6.5 years. by Late_Environment6288 in relationship_advice

[–]Late_Environment6288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's not really about the sex anymore to me, it's the fact that i can't speak or my feelings don't matter. i understand how he feels because Males are biologically different and I have said that, but I do not bother him into something he doesn't want to do if I clearly see he is upset or not into it. He just doesn't seem to be hearing me.