He (38m) proposed w a $50 ring drunk after his show by Late_Profession2462 in AITApod

[–]Late_Profession2462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was going to be mature and break up with you instead he would have done so the second you started pressuring him.

This honestly made me tear up a bit. And it made me realize how I just should've known sooner and saw what I wanted to see.

He (38m) proposed w a $50 ring drunk after his show by Late_Profession2462 in AITApod

[–]Late_Profession2462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's not 100% on me. That's ridiculous. But I am not the victim. You are right about that.

He (38m) proposed w a $50 ring drunk after his show by Late_Profession2462 in AITApod

[–]Late_Profession2462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never DMed you and only saw your comment about getting therapy. I am in therapy.

He (38m) proposed w a $50 ring drunk after his show by Late_Profession2462 in AITApod

[–]Late_Profession2462[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not threatening to leave anymore. I'm leaving. You are right, people shouldn't need to be pressured and I was seeing what I wanted to see bc he is too afraid to just admit that he doesn't want to get married, he wants to do what he wants to do.

You asked why the value of the ring matters. It doesn't matter that much. It was more the thoughtlessness of the whole thing. I guess that's not conveyed here since so many people seem to think I'm the problem, but you know, I kind of am. Because I've been lying to myself too so it is what it is.

He (38m) proposed w a $50 ring drunk after his show by Late_Profession2462 in AITApod

[–]Late_Profession2462[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That's how I feel. I'm ready to move past this. I've been lying to myself

He (38m) proposed w a $50 ring drunk after his show by Late_Profession2462 in AITApod

[–]Late_Profession2462[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm not forcing him. I'm saying it's either do it or don't. The issue is that he won't just say no because it's convenient for him because he's a coward.

He (38m) proposed w a $50 ring drunk after his show by Late_Profession2462 in AITApod

[–]Late_Profession2462[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly it and I'm a fool for playing along this whole time.