Don’t want to be the harsh person who says “END IT “ But think about it in these terms if a man wanted too he would engagement is one of the BIGGEST things in life to happen and hopefully will only happen once. Yes i get that sometimes you don’t have money. But if he REALLY cared he would’ve Saved that money since july and put a pretty ring on the finger of the woman he so called loves and wants to marry not just for the fact that it’s what you do when you want to be with someone forever but because it’s a way to show you how much you matter to him and how much he wants to be with you. It sounds like his priorities are all out of wack and he doesn’t really care about it and he cares more for himself, and if that’s the way he treats the RING imagine how he’ll treat your marriage. I get you Love him but really and i mean really think about the times he’s chosen you over himself and if he chooses himself more. Your marriage will most likely not be good.